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Dealing with the sins of the father 18.3 to 4
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Could be saying the man's father didn't give him a positive role model for a happy marriage or that whatever the folks' relationship was it's not what he wants to create for himself.
Hex 4 could mean he's uncertain what he wants or is happy with things as they are.
What was the question?
Hex 4 could mean he's uncertain what he wants or is happy with things as they are.
What was the question?
It was in relation to sending a letter where I talk about my life back when I lost my husband 3 years ago, and how alone I felt and my vision moving forward, needing to deal w self doubt, and fear, mentioning my surprise at finding that my heart was not demolished and dead, but that it had opened to the newness of another, despite being frightened...
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Well perhaps 18.3 is mirroring your sense of loss and lack of guidance and 4 is your heart being open to the new. It seems to fit but meanwhile you may find you are more easily able to interpret your answers or get guidance from the online community here if you start with a specific question.
Just a suggestion,
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Just a suggestion,
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I think it might be worth reading Julia's previous threads to sort of be in the picture here...or Julia you might want to refer or link to them. I only say that because I can remember some of your previous queries. I think the situation is that you are in this new relationship, the first since your husband died 3 years ago, but this man is not very forthcoming in terms of commitment. I think you said he rarely shows you open affection yet you know he is a good man which is why you stay but you feel very unsure of him.
In those threads I think I interpreted your readings as saying more or less you needed to give it more time and of course, as 3 years is not so long, to get accustomed to the ways of a man who is quite different from your husband.
We don't know what your question was here so it is hard to apply the answer. Generally 18.3 describes situations where one really tries to correct something but it doesn't quite work and one ends up saying 'oh well I tried'.
Do you feel you have to come to the end of the road with this relationship now ?
In those threads I think I interpreted your readings as saying more or less you needed to give it more time and of course, as 3 years is not so long, to get accustomed to the ways of a man who is quite different from your husband.
We don't know what your question was here so it is hard to apply the answer. Generally 18.3 describes situations where one really tries to correct something but it doesn't quite work and one ends up saying 'oh well I tried'.
Do you feel you have to come to the end of the road with this relationship now ?
Hi trojina,
No I don't feel the end of the road, just the opposite, I am learning to not rush things, to ask for what I need, and let time and events transpire to bring us closer together. Which it is, slowly. I still can't be sure how candid to be about my heart etc, and I hold back expressing with the "love" word. I wrote a few paragraphs describing how very alone I felt 3 years ago, and how even now I am frightened of the bigger task of starting over for my business (which we both ran together).and thought of sending it to my new guy, but it seemed to say, don't send it.
How do I link the previous posts? I was wondering how, or if it was possible, for the same reason.
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful responses, and for remembering me. Julia
No I don't feel the end of the road, just the opposite, I am learning to not rush things, to ask for what I need, and let time and events transpire to bring us closer together. Which it is, slowly. I still can't be sure how candid to be about my heart etc, and I hold back expressing with the "love" word. I wrote a few paragraphs describing how very alone I felt 3 years ago, and how even now I am frightened of the bigger task of starting over for my business (which we both ran together).and thought of sending it to my new guy, but it seemed to say, don't send it.
How do I link the previous posts? I was wondering how, or if it was possible, for the same reason.
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful responses, and for remembering me. Julia