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  1. 5

    When do I get love and peace?

    Greetings to all! I am in an unhappy marriage. It's a dysfunctional family with strained relations with my wife and two daughters. Even though I fulfil all my duties and obligations, there is no respect or gratitude, and they all adopt a stance of entitlement and gaslighting me all the time with...
  2. R

    What if we stay together? 2.3.5>39 (20 year long relationship)

    I asked this question because, as happens periodically, I find myself very disturbed by thoughts of ending my 20 year marriage. My husband is a good man, caring and a great father - we have a 12 year old daughter. I have recently started seeing a therapist with the aim of understanding what...
  3. J

    I asked the I Ching to give me a "picture" of how someone I know, feels about me

    I asked the I Ching to give me a "picture" of how someone I know, feels about me The resultant reading was 60.1 to 29 Can someone help interpret, I can't understand it easily. The person in question is a man, and how he feels toward or about me
  4. J

    Show me what he wants and needs most in a woman?

    48 The Well, for an answer to the question about my particular, long term bachelor man: Show me what he wants desires and needs most in a woman? can you interpret this for me in our world, in plain understandable language?
  5. J

    uestion Is he capable of change? Opening his heart to love w me? and Yi's answer

    Question: Is he capable of change? Opening his heart to love w (only) me? and Yi's answer, 18. Background concerns: is this man(who has spent a lifetime fearing commitment and love, capable of change and opening his heart to love (with me)? Bachelor his whole life, but now parts of him are...
  6. J

    Hash it out? Talk it out more? 25

    My boyfriend and I had a timeout recently and are back in each other's company...Question was : do I/we talk about it further ? Or is my telling him my issues once over the phone, then taking a timeout, enough, and it would not be good to further hash it out? The iching reading was 25, no...
  7. J

    Dealing with the sins of the father 18.3 to 4

    What do you think it means ? Deals with the troubles caused by the father, In relation to a man in my life I have been dating for 7 months, whom I like and who seems to like me, but never married etc, so is afraid of that etc.
  8. J

    More thoughts? On what is going forth here

    What is happening here currently, please explain? (Our relationship) Your reading resulted in the following hexagrams: changing to 46 26 46. Shêng / Pushing Upward ADVANCING and ASCENDING / PUSHING UPWARD Shêng indicates that under its conditions there will be great progress and...
  9. A

    Being Misled 27.3.4>30 and 8 Unchanging

    For the last several months I've been dating a man that seemed wonderful, however the more time we spent together the more I noticed neediness and a narcissistic lack of accountability. Recently it became clear that he had intentional misled me about an issue that was core to my continuing to...
  10. P

    Relationship advice - Contradictory information. HELP!!!

    Hello guys! This is my first post here and I'm not a native spkear neither have been to a country that has English as official language, so, I'm sorry for any weird mistakes I make. I will try to be short: -Situation: There's this girl who I like. I'm totally blank if she likes me or not...
  11. N

    Sorry, relationship question: Hex 1.4.5 (Changing to 26)

    For the past year and a half I've been in a relationship that has at times been rather difficult, but has also been extremely loving and beautiful. We've broken up several times (for short period of times) and have gotten back together. Broke up again a month ago, but have been in communication...
  12. D

    The significance of Hexagram 16

    I have been consistently receiving Hex 16, both unchanging and as the second hexagram in regards to just about anything I've ever asked about my relationship with someone. This has remained consistent for two months. What is the significance about Hex 16 in a relationship? I know it means...
  13. L

    People around me think that I should stop the relationship with S; what do you think?

    Dear all, My therapist says I should stop my (ambiguous) relationship with someone, to cut my old patterns, I've been taking my time and it is difficult for me to let go. I asked Yi what does he think about it? and he aswered 23.3>52: would it mean "don't worry this relationship will end by...
  14. L

    What is the best advice you can give me for this relationship to be the best

    Dear All, I have a relationship with someone that is not well defined, I asked what is the best advice to be the best possible relationship, whatever the nature is and the answer is 8.2-29. Would the answer mean: stay there as long as you feel good in your heart, if not it will be like...
  15. C

    Building a better relationship for the future (2 questions)!

    I asked "what can I do to make him want me again" and recieved 13.1.3.5 to 35 (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free_I_Ching_reading/reading.php?lines=989797&text=barrett&question=How+can+I+make+Chris+want+me+again) I asked "what can I do to build this relationship" 3.3.3.6 to 22...
  16. paisleyorchid

    Newbie...help

    Don't quite know how to begin. I've been having quite an interesting relationship with this gentleman. We were friends first. There was always an underlying attraction between he and I others would point it out and I would dismiss it as there is a rather significant age difference between us. I...
  17. C

    Uncertainty in a relationship

    http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free_I_Ching_reading/reading.php?lines=788898&text=barrett&question=Does+Chris+hate+me+ I asked the iching about a relationship that has been on the rocks for a while. We recently separated, more on his side then mine but we are still very connected and I have a...

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