Building a better relationship for the future (2 questions)!

[Chloemc]

I asked "what can I do to make him want me again" and recieved 13.1.3.5 to 35 (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free...t&question=How+can+I+make+Chris+want+me+again)
I asked "what can I do to build this relationship"
3.3.3.6 to 22 (http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free...&question=How+can+I+rebuild+our+relationship+)

The trust has been broken however the connection is still strongly there and I know what we had is hard to find. I am not trying to force anything but it is difficult when I feel so strongly that he is who I want to share everything with. I am troubled and need help. I know I need to change my way of being in order to ever have a successful happy relationship .

 

[ginnie]

13.1.3.5 > 35. When given three moving lines, I usually focus on the middle one. This is an interesting line with a number of different, opposing interpretations. One group of commentators says that you hide your warriors and climb a high hill, avoiding a fight. Others say who would do this, hide and wait? I like Hilary's take on this line. She says you need to create harmony with those who are now causing you difficulties. Your other reading, hex 3, indicates that you should find helpers: maybe people who know both of you who can act as go-betweens.

 

[Chloemc]

13.1.3.5 > 35. When given three moving lines, I usually focus on the middle one. This is an interesting line with a number of different, opposing interpretations. One group of commentators says that you hide your warriors and climb a high hill, avoiding a fight. Others say who would do this, hide and wait? I like Hilary's take on this line. She says you need to create harmony with those who are now causing you difficulties. Your other reading, hex 3, indicates that you should find helpers: maybe people who know both of you who can act as go-betweens.

We don't have any common friends but I do talk to his mother occasionally. Do you think I should build a relationship with her? I don't want to pressure him into being with me and I don't know if were meant to be but little things just make me feel we are. We are in sync even when we don't talk.

 

[ginnie]

You need supporters because you are in a situation called Difficult Beginnings. Why not be friendly with his mother? It would seem to be only natural, since you are interested in him. In fact, why not make every attempt to create a positive, harmonious relationship with everybody you know. Reach out.

 

[Chloemc]

It's hard to reach out because I am moving across the country at the end of this month. He and I have something real and I know that. For a very long time he was there for me, at my worst, when nobody else was. I was speaking with other guys a lot of the time and was feeling guilty being with him from a previous relationship. Now the tables have turned, he overlooked a lot but found out I had been unfaithful and that is when things turned upside down. I know we love each other because I have never felt this way about anyone before but when we are together we get so caught up . He tells me he wants to be alone but still our relationship not much has changed. The feelings are still there, I asked the iching if there is a possibility of us being able to end up together and received http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free...ion=Is+it+possible+for+us+to+end+up+together+

I've asked a few other questions in regards to how to make this work that I am also stuck on but I'd like help addressing this first.