uestion Is he capable of change? Opening his heart to love w me? and Yi's answer

[JuliaF]

Question: Is he capable of change? Opening his heart to love w (only) me? and Yi's answer, 18.
Background concerns: is this man(who has spent a lifetime fearing commitment and love, capable of change and opening his heart to love (with me)? Bachelor his whole life, but now parts of him are recognizing how lonely that can be, yet patterns are grooved deep for him.rel

 

[mirian]

Whatever the way this man feels or behaves, it seems to have settled, as hex 18 suggests, mainly due to inertia, or just by repeating old patterns. But hex 18 also advises to work on whatever the issues are, to get out of this structure, that has become obsolete. However, as you haven't got any changing lines, this reading leaves us with the question of how much work this will take and what sort of result to expect. It feels like yes, every work to improve, repair, develop, rejuvenate, is advisable and has its own merit. In practical terms, it does not give any prognostic of results.

 

[Vissino]

Unfortunately, hexagram 18 is just "No"... You can't fix him..

 

[thisismybody]

18 UC - an obvious answer that he needs to work on what's been spoiled. But that's not your business. He hasn't started the work, with no change lines. Yi reflects back what you already know. Not what it will be. Maybe at the moment this is all. Maybe he will always be like this. Love the present. Don't try to change others. Find someone who fits NOW. And who you are now.