hex 1 unchanging - how to act now

[sylvieguillem]

The question was this: how to act now? And the result was obviously the hexagram number 1, without movements.
I did that question because i had changes in my relation with a guy that i was in love. We were seeing the last month, and everything seems to be good and happy. But two weeks ago the guy told me that he didnt want compromise (i never talked about compromise) and that he didnt feel "the same". So... i was very down. The problem is that we are partners in an art group. We always met in the group's encounters, and we are friends of all the members of the group.
For the other hand, the boy never split up with me. He only says he doesnt want compromise and doesnt feel the same... But he is open tu an "open" relationship. I think he is waiting i take a decision: go on with him in this way, or stop to see us.... I dont take a decision,,, I only want to see what happens in my emotions in this days.. But for the moment i cant escape of meeting him.
So,.. This next days we are gonna meet in some dates of the group, and i don know how to act... He acts very normal, like we only be friends... But for me is very dificult.,, I dont understand the meaning of hex 1. Anybody can help me??

thanks a lot!
Guillem

 

[folledeschiele]

Hi Sylvie,
I think of hexagram 1 unchanging as the universe giving you the ultimate carte blanche to do whatever you feel compelled to do. This is archetypal, pure creative energy, and I see you as having the power in this situation to steer the situation in a way that feels right to you. So I would do some soul-searching and try to figure out what that is, then go for it. If you decide you're willing to risk exploring the relationship further despite not exactly being on the same wavelength, go for it without fear. Similarly, if you decide it's a bad scene and doesn't correspond to what you want and need, break it off without a moment's hesitation. Remember to be confident and trust in your own capacities to steer your life in the direction that's right for you-- you seem to have a powerful headwind here. Also, when you're around the guy, be daring and confident, whatever your decision. Take the reins. Good luck!