Hex 45.5 in reply to what will be next

[magicdancer]

I met a man online. It was a mutual attraction but we leave some hours away.
We started communicating, he told me he needed time, by the end of the months would have been easier to communicate more because he was very busy now.
But I was seeying how he daily was updating his profile and clicking likes in the pics of others. I thought how a man that says to be attracted to somebody says that does not have time yet for communicating that we need to wait till the end of the month but at same time he has some time to click others pics and update his profile.

I had a past experience of somebody that was "confused: with what he wanted with me and I lost 6 years of my life waiting for him.

I was afraid this could repeat and I wrote to him deleting him from my life and network.:0

I think I did not have any patience but I was so afraid to find myself involved again in same situation than gthe past.

I asked the Iching what would happen now with him, I wrote back to him explaining how I feel with his attitude,

The Iching replied
Hex 45 line 5

Would somebody be so kind to guide me what its the message for me?

Thank you !
MD

 

[yxeli]

Hey,

This to me is saying your in control of how this goes.

Theres some trust issues between you, probably because you dont know eachother well.

Your in aposition to express your feelings and for him to understand them, but i have a sneaking suspicion that theres another person involved. line 4 tries to assuage the power of line 5. But because you are the leader here, that hsouldnt concern you. what you need to focus on is physically meeting him and then expressing your true thoughts and feelings. As this leads to 16, i would suggest some foresight is needed, preparations for things that might go wrong. This is pretty important to keep your feet firmly on the ground. But overall this is positive. your the leader though, your in control, not him, so its your duty to gather him to you. This means really expressing yourself and your feelings in depth and with a leader mentality, dont get sidetracked with all these little facebook intrigues. A leader wouldn't lower herself to such trifles. Be strong, get you act together and express yourself honeslty.

Bests,

Yx

 

[magicdancer]

that sounds great! I have not thinking it could be another person, and in fact sounds perfectly logic, now his attitude it has more sense to me. Maybe he has somebody and wants to end it? And needs some time? Well I will wait to see his reply . Thank you.

 

[yxeli]

that sounds great! I have not thinking it could be another person, and in fact sounds perfectly logic, now his attitude it has more sense to me. Maybe he has somebody and wants to end it? And needs some time? Well I will wait to see his reply . Thank you.

Its basically saying that he is not in a position to trust you, If your only sending eachother emails and the like, he's not too sure.

You have to convince him of how you feel.

You also have to trust your own feelings. whether positive or negative,

Your the leader here.

gatheirng is about physically assembling a group.

If you continue to have an online relationship, thats not going to convince him.

I'd bite the bullet. go to his town.


Yx

 

[magicdancer]

thank you! Difficult for me to go and see him, not yet at least. He has not replied yet. Probably we yes, both mistrust each other, because it has only been an online encounter. I would reflect for a while. I think it is his turn to contact me. I will wait for a few days, having positive thoughts about him contacting me. I can feel there is a mutual inner connection, but I don't want to push. My past tell me to wait and don't try to force destiny.

 

[mirian]

Hope that helps.

Your reading is saying that is all good when we are in a position to attract others, to gather people around you, but not everyone that you attract has got the best intentions towards you. So, the advice is to keep your feet on the ground, stick to your values, be true to what you think that is right or wrong, until his intentions/attitude become clear to you.

all the best.

 

[long yi]

Six line analysis report

Your six line layout: for purpose of analysis
出生时间：年　性别：女　起卦方式：直接指定
起卦时间：2012年06月07日13时14分

神煞：天乙—子申　福星—未　日禄—午　羊刃—巳　驿马—巳　桃花—子　华盖—未
干支：壬辰年　丙午月　己亥日　辛未时
旬空：午未　　寅卯　　辰巳　　戌亥


六神　 伏神 　　　兑宫：泽地萃　　　　　　　　　　震宫：雷地豫（六合）
　　　　　　　　　【本　卦】　　　　　　　　　　　【变　卦】
勾陈　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母丁未土　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母庚戌土　　
朱雀　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　兄弟丁酉金　应○→　▅▅　▅▅　兄弟庚申金　天乙　
青龙　　　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　子孙丁亥水　　　　　▅▅▅▅▅　官鬼庚午火　应
玄武　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财乙卯木　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　妻财乙卯木　　
白虎　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　官鬼乙巳火　世　　　▅▅　▅▅　官鬼乙巳火　驿马—　
滕蛇　　　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母乙未土　　　　　▅▅　▅▅　父母乙未土　世

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Probably we yes, both mistrust each other, because it has only been an online encounter.
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Correct, line 2 = you – yin line. You think of him官鬼乙巳火　世, but it is unsure about him. Line 2 same 5 element character 巳火as the letter under the day of reading (巳火house of spouse). It sits empty.

Hexagram 16: no change in line 2. Situation unchanged.

Line 5 =兄弟丁酉金 yang line. He think of someone else, not you. Line 5 move backward one step (from 兄弟丁酉金 to 兄弟庚申金). This means he is retreating with the other party at present (probably in September 2012).

Line 1/6 are marriage document lines. It has the same five element 未土 as the character of reading year (2012). This means 2012 you will not be married.
Line 2 = yin (you); Line 5 = yang (him). Both parties are passive. No good because both sides are not sure at all.

Line 3 female妻财乙卯木 has a connection to line 5兄弟丁酉金 (him) and pulls line 5 to be a change line. In between, line 4 is a child or someone younger.

Q&A: Does he has a child and a wife or ex-wife?
This female’s character sit under the house of marriage (month of the reading). This is the interference party.

Hexagram 16: Happy counter between two passive person (male/female) – short lived.

Man has left (line 2 =官鬼乙巳火　驿马—). It left you vibration in your house of spouse (亥日 character in day of reading).

Hexagram 16:
Trigram line 4 to 6 Chen (wood – vibration)
Trigram line 1 to 3 K’un receptive (earth - hollow)

Chen is the method of use trigram
K’un is the body trigram.

Wood suppresses earth.
The method of use trigram suppresses the body trigram.
Theory: 震卦克體：
主有虛驚。常多恐懼。或身心不能安靜。或家宅見妖災。或草木姓氏之人相侵。或于山林有所失。
You fear the unknown that this will not work.
占婚姻以體為主，用為婚姻。。用克體，不可成，成亦有。
When the method of use trigram suppresses the body trigram. This means no marriage is possible.

Your line 2 sits inside the lower trigram. His line 5 is inside the upper trigram. He is not using any method to court you.

Conclusion; Just an encounter on the net for two lonely souls. Everyone has his/her problem. If he does not contact you again, good evening & good bye.

If you walk pass him on the net in spirt, he will ask: Do I know you?

Line 6父母庚戌土 of hexagram 16 has the marriage document line sits under the reading time. This is the empty spot for the female’s soul and body, there is no suitor? This means you sleep alone. No hug and kiss, no sex.

The six line method is a powerful tool to build a picture. Along with the Plum Flower trigram theory, you got your answer.

If you want to go after him, think twice. If you must meet, pick September 5 – Oct 3. Cast another reading in July/Aug.

Cannot force someone to love you... for what reason?

 

[magicdancer]

Wow. Thank you. QUite sad for me anyway, for hopes of something nice coming fron this online encounter.
Yes, in fact he has somebody in his mind and heart. He is a widow and lost in a huge tragedy his wife some years ago. For what I heard and naturally for the dimentions of the tragedy he withdrew emotionally from anything else that were not his small kids that survived the tragedy. I think this is the woman that holds him away from me and/or others.
I believe we have a deepconnection, but yes I do not want to push, wouldnt take us anywhere. however I feel he is just arriving to the right moment to open again to live, but its just a feeling, as it is just a feeling I did right staying apart and letting him think.
He has not contacted me but I see his posts, and last one, he writes something like " it did not go well to open, I am withdrawing to my kids and dreams again.
I doubt if contacting him, but I feel if I would it should not be before I feel enough stable myself, still I feel too much connected emotionally to him even the short time. I think lot about him and I feel sad he is not around me. I feel he is having the same feelings I have but I also think he wont do anything about it.
At times tragedy strikes so hard in our heart that closes us with fear, I know he tried to open, but I guess I did well or maybe not? I do not know. Maybe I should ask the Iching a new reading to ask if I should keep apart or contact him in a while?
Thank you!!

 

[long yi]

Up to Feb 4 2013 is the year of the dragon, 壬辰年. Iching reading reports event at the present moment, but nothing to the longer future. 2013 is the year of snake, 巳. A quick examination of the above hexagram that things will change for him in 2013 after Feb. There are also opportunity for him in Aug to meet someone.

If you retreat to common sense, are you ready to help a widow with his kids. This comes with the package. You are not dealing with a single man. The territory comes with a lot of responsibility.

If you really, really likes him, run a Tarot card relationship analysis. You will know where each other stands. Hexagram 16 may = 8 of wands in Tarot card.

In all love matters, the Eight of Wands Tarot card indicates movement.If your relationship has been struggling with a lack of passion, things are going to take a turn for the better. For those of you who are single, expect new communications from potential love interests.

Ha, things are not that bad if you are looking for a romance, if not with him, there will others. With him, you have run your own SWOP analysis.

 

[magicdancer]

I am bit confused reading, same time understanding. There is any website where can I run a Tarot relationship analysis? I really really like him as reply to your question and about children, I understand the responsibility have experieneced myself and for me having children around it is one of the more reqarding things in life. They allow you to stay a kid inside at same time they force you to be stable and have very clear in my mind your direction, so you don't harm them.
Thank you, need to reflect. I am stopping myself from contacting him because I have all time his eyes in front of mine. But I believe in some 2 weeks will be better for me, because I need to solve somethings now and that weeks I will be stronger for any answer or not answer from him if I contact him again.

 

[long yi]

I ran the Tarot card relationship spread for you. It is in your inbox. If you need information about certain cards, you can ask me. The last card is 8 of cups reversed. In any event, both of you have responsibilities and therefore are not ready.

Hexagram 16 Kama: Your personality alone generates the vibrations of love and passion that inspire your relationships. Friends swoons dizzily along.

 

[magicdancer]

Thank you, as I said to you, You were very precise in your interpretations.