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That's certainly a good start.I've come to terms with things being for the best and it's not a betrayal, although it felt that way.
Those who come to the temple should surely bring an offering, not merely their needs.
Wonder if line 4 is about what you say here:
That's certainly a good start.
Then lines 5 and 6 - I agree they're encouraging, though line 6 is about being in harmony "at the outskirts altar," emphasis on outskirts. Maybe somehow you figure out how to make the long-distance relationship work satisfactorily?
If you meet again, 13.1.2.6 to 28. 13 repeated, line 6 repeated - I wonder if the next time you meet, a focus will be (could be, should be) on working out "how to make this work" as I mentioned up above. Speculation.
Line 1 - I wonder if it's scene-setting? A meeting - okay, good, but remember you're still in a 13 situation; that hasn't changed.
Line 2 - um...this line can be hard to understand...an actual meeting would be like being back in the temple (for once - hooray). It might be quite nice, but again, the basic situation is still 13. Don't be lulled into forgetting that.
Maybe it'll also be important that the meeting not turn into each of you dwelling on your own needs? Hilary says this in her commentary in her book:
And then line 6 as a higher perspective or overview - again, maybe a good purpose of a meeting would be to figure out how to do 13.6. If you can, it seems to me that would be actual progress in your relationship, not just meeting for the sake of a pleasant time but then you're right back where you started.
Reconciliation 13.4.5.6 to 36. Don't go there, its best to pass on this. Only more harm for you. Maybe later. Years later. Maybe never.
Possible outcome of repetition 13.1.2.6 to 28. Not the same outcome, it could turn out even worse. Too much masculine (egoic) force, one of you will have a group (13.1.2), the other will be outside (13.6). Accept the loss to move on.
Btw, to feel betrayed is a pretty complex emotional process. Don't take it lightly or dismiss the important message it could be carrying about possible childhood wounds and how they're triggered by the SO's behaviour. Its not about blaming, its about narrowing down our true responsibility.
Sorry to hear this, Light. An unpleasant breakup wasn't quit what I thought the reading was pointing at. 13.6 confuses me here unless, as you say, you never got there.
It's not the first time I've seen 13 be like this, although one example was unchanging. A possible explanation is that 13's nuclear hexagram (click here for an explanation) is 44, and 44 is about something you can't marry, or join with. 44 can also be about undermining which also could fit.
Wonder if line 4 is about what you say here:
That's certainly a good start.
Then lines 5 and 6 - I agree they're encouraging, though line 6 is about being in harmony "at the outskirts altar," emphasis on outskirts. Maybe somehow you figure out how to make the long-distance relationship work satisfactorily?
If you meet again, 13.1.2.6 to 28. 13 repeated, line 6 repeated - I wonder if the next time you meet, a focus will be (could be, should be) on working out "how to make this work" as I mentioned up above. Speculation.
Line 1 - I wonder if it's scene-setting? A meeting - okay, good, but remember you're still in a 13 situation; that hasn't changed.
Line 2 - um...this line can be hard to understand...an actual meeting would be like being back in the temple (for once - hooray). It might be quite nice, but again, the basic situation is still 13. Don't be lulled into forgetting that.
Maybe it'll also be important that the meeting not turn into each of you dwelling on your own needs? Hilary says this in her commentary in her book:
And then line 6 as a higher perspective or overview - again, maybe a good purpose of a meeting would be to figure out how to do 13.6. If you can, it seems to me that would be actual progress in your relationship, not just meeting for the sake of a pleasant time but then you're right back where you started.
"Right back where you started" meaning that progress might not be made. Having a nice time might be a goal unto itself given your history, but there's probably such a thing as, "That was lovely! Now what?," and having no answers to that.
13 in general is about people who are quite different - who don't have a lot of unanimity etc. (look what 13.2 says about that) - finding a way to create harmony amongst themselves. In 13.6 they achieve this, or in a reading like yours have a chance to, at least.
There's also a flavor, as Hilary puts it, of "wide open space" - the "outskirts altar." That can be figurative (people need room to be themselves, even if they're part of a group or relationship), but in your case there's actual geographic distance. That's why I thought 13.6 might be finding ways to make the long-distance relationship work better. But it could be the figurative sense, I don't know.
How that might happen and to what extent, I don't know. It might happen naturally and without great effort, or it might need A Discussion.
It also probably doesn't mean every last thing has to be worked out at once. Not that 13.6 says that, just because that's a lot ever to expect in real life.
I just think it means your meeting should leave you on better footing than before in some real way, or you'll keep having the same problems.
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