Hexagram 22.1.3.6 > 2 What kind of person am I?

[MeltingPot247]

Hi all,

I read a lot on my days off, numerous news stories and articles on what's happening around the world etc...

I've been this way from a young age - always curious, inquisitive ... Reading is an escape and/or distraction whether I'm feeling great or not.

Anyhow, I asked this question because I had read an article on Medium about emotionally abusive relationships and some of the traits of an unhealthy partner are ones that I have (not necessarily an emotionally abusive person in a relationship but one not fully strong enough in their own being yet).

This article mentioned things I do have - ADHD, which is a bit unfair how the author described it, but I know they are not an expert on the diagnosis - so I digress, but it was there. Other red flags were someone who changes careers often, what their relationship with their children is like etc... I have changed jobs regularly over the course of my life and my teenagers started boarding with their Nan this year (she is more emotionally/ financially stable than I am).

I know I need to work on myself as a person constantly and consistently which is what I try to do whether I'm in a relationship or not - but I have been in a relationship for coming up to 5 years but given how I've just described myself - I see value in being single again to try and transform some of the flaws I see in myself that prevent me from becoming more stable and steady for a healthier relationship.

So I asked the question

*What kind of person am I? - as in currently...

First of all, to gain insight if I'm actually a bit crazier or more of an a hole than I thought. I half expected a more negative result - but I actually received Hexagram 22.1.3.6 to 2

Grace/ Beauty (some say superficial essence) from Receptive/ Earth.

Line 1​

'Making your feet beautiful.
Putting away the carriage and going on foot.'. -

Line 3​

'Beautiful, as if dipped in water.
Ever-flowing constancy, good fortune.'

Line 6​

'White beauty.
No mistake.'

1. I am a bit of wanderer, prefer to walk my path, my way.

3. Beautiful as if dipped in water, ever flowing constancy? Good fortune? - I'm not sure about this one...but it does make me think of the constant flow of thoughts and endless curiosity I have

6. White beauty, no mistake? - at the end of the day, a pure hearted person?

If you had received this answer as a description of you - how would you interpret it?

My next question or step, is an actual plan to work on myself as an individual - not within the relationship that I've been having with another as for me it seems to be hindering my growth in some ways.

I would appreciate others thoughts on this.

Love & light

 

[breakmov]

Hi MeltingPot247

Hexagram 22.1.3.6 > 2 What kind of person am I?​

....I thought of a way to meditate on the answer, 22.1.3.6>2, to your question:

"How can I be an expression of "human beauty"?
-Being a source of "internal health" as a structure of that beauty that manifests and adorns."


22.1: How can each "small initial step" be the expression of a "beautiful movement" based on something real and meaningful to you?

22.3: how to express "something beautiful" based on pragmatic and balanced clarity.

22.6: how to express "something beautiful", when nothing else is possible, simply on the basis of stable and magnanimous "internal health".

breakmov

 

[MeltingPot247]

Hi MeltingPot247



....I thought of a way to meditate on the answer, 22.1.3.6>2, to your question:

"How can I be an expression of "human beauty"?
-Being a source of "internal health" as a structure of that beauty that manifests and adorns."


22.1: How can each "small initial step" be the expression of a "beautiful movement" based on something real and meaningful to you?

22.3: how to express "something beautiful" based on pragmatic and balanced clarity.

22.6: how to express "something beautiful", when nothing else is possible, simply on the basis of stable and magnanimous "internal health".

breakmov

Thank you for the response.

Internal Health and Stability is something I am consistently working on more consciously each day - so perhaps this answers the question of 'What kind of person I am' right now

 

[breakmov]

MeltingPot247 said:​

Internal Health and Stability is something I am consistently working on more consciously each day - so perhaps this answers the question of 'What kind of person I am' right now

That's what I thought too:

"I am a person who considers Internal Health and Stability as a basis for dealing with, and putting into perspective, the "oppressive situations" in life, in order to express a beautiful human interaction with the world".

breakmov