Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Doesn't that describe the state of all those who marry or live together for years ?
That's not to say you should stay, I just don't think romance features hugely in any long term relationships.
If you think of him as simply a housemate with no special powers or privileges, you might find it easier to say, "I'm wanting to have some friends over for dinner some night next week. Could you plan on being gone then or would you rather my friends and I just went out for a meal?" 37.1 emphasizes setting your boundaries and 37.6 if you honor them you will progress. So know what your boundaries are and then act on them.
Another thought about 39 meaning to reconfigure the way you are thinking about the problem, as you don't have any particular friend you want to bring home just yet perhaps you are jumping the gun in assuming his refusal to help transition is keeping your life on hold. Nobody needs to know the intimate details of your living arrangements. If the subject comes up say you have a room mate. If a prospective suitor asks about your marital status could you simply say you are in the midst of getting a divorce?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).