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Labelling it 'victim mentality' only goes so far and has blame attached to it. All the new agers love to accuse anyone ill or suffering of having 'victim mentality' its their way of keeping seperate and safe from it . I'm not saying you,Bamboo are one of these extreme types but i come accross those ideas so often...boy they get to the stage where they say anyone suffering has 'victim mentality'.
I do understand the exasperation. I don't think theres any point in Em Ching asking for further interpretations of this issue here. I think it might help her more just to talk to someone about it. To be blunt I think she may be getting ill with depression or something so I can't see how being really disparaging abouth her will help. And I'm not meaning to be patronising saying you may be getting depression Em Ching I just hope you recognise when you need help as opposed to thinking changing the situation will change everything for you.
Doesn't everyone know that extreme difficulty and anxiety over reaching fairly simple decisions may be a symptom of depressive illness ??? I'm not saying that is the case, how would I know, I'm just aware of it as a possibility.
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yes well, little decisions I've got better at, like what chocolate bar to get, I've mastered that one - although I have fretted to the point of - if I get this it'll tip the balance of my life one way etc... just go with the chocolate bar you went into the shop for in the first place... if that makes any sort of sense as a metaphor..
Nope - How did you not guess I'm a Libra!!! (for my sins) which perhaps explains trying to balance everything out, staying middle ground until it's too late... then I also have aries ascendant and moon, which means I cannot pick my moments to be impulsive, and when I am fiery it becomes overshadowed by emotion (moon influence perhaps) and I.. cry
Sometimes the hexagrams have too many layers! But I guess that is their nature
Hesitation and hindrance.
It furthers one to remain persevering.
It furthers one to appoint helpers.
IF A PERSON encounters a hindrance at the beginning of an enterprise, he must not try to force advance but must pause and take thought. However, nothing should put him off his course; he must persevere and constantly keep the goal in sight. It's important to seek out the right assistants, but he can find them only if he avoids arrogance and associates with his fellows in a spirit of humility. Only then will he attract those with whose help he can combat the difficulties
I have given up the mindset of a beautiful world long agao after I encountered psycholpaths and those who'd rip the heart into pieces to get an edge.
Yes this applies here. I will not cast them aside because they threatened me and are different types of people to me, because I see good in them and I do enjoy their company, I'm just not as free with them as I am with others that I have a better connection with.. I am aware that our differences, may still cause trouble in future, but I think the challenge here is to remain true to myself despite social pressure and just get along and be loyal to the situation.
Thanks all.
:bows:
Yes but you said this before,,,,about 10 times...and then you said the opposite about 10 times....in er several other threads Is this really it ? Can we believe you ....or is it really a case of http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=temaoKXSVxw
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).