Clarity,
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I should contact him or wait until contact me?
If you are not able to use little events as cause for joy, happiness or togetherness, difficult times will be a disaster for you. Useless things can be extremely useful in another realm of consciousness, so open your eyes and look for them. If your heart stays young and open, so will you.
As per your suggestion to ask iching questions. So I did.
One was: If I were to contact him, what would the result be ? and I got Iching 18
Another was: If I were to wait for things to take its own course what would happen with him and I? I got Iching 49.3 > 17.
Any insight you can give me on this new reading?
Thank you,
T
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‘Setting out to bring order means pitfall,
Constancy means danger.
Words of radical change draw near three times,
There is truth and confidence.’
Not time to make it happen. ‘Setting out to bring order’ is a military term; means imposing order on an unruly region. That’s a conquest; you are aiming for a revolution, which is different. Trying to fix things/ people in the way you’d like them to be would be disastrous; persevering with your own ideas is dangerous. Instead, let the talk of change go round again and again. (Just bringing the news once is not enough; people need time to incorporate the idea into their thinking.) Bring the need for change to the forefront of awareness first.
49 zhi Hexagram 17, Following. Radical change enlisting the power of following, of natural desire, rather than enforcing change.
I really afraid that if I were to meet up with him, I might get my heart broken again.
I was really good at avoiding talking about 'us' at all cost, but he is the one who keeps wanting to rub in my face that he has a girlfriend and how hard it is to find a pair of tickets to go to a concert and how he might have to picnic outside (blah blah blah). I was so angry, but I managed to stay calm. I'm not sure why he has to rub it in, or maybe he tried to get my reaction OR he just want to show off, not sure which. So, I just hope that in the party setting he is not gonna be doing any of that....I just don't want to loose my cool.
You mention something about getting my armor tight and secured. From your experience can you share with me how can I go about it in from day to day practical basis? Thank u.
OMG! I just have a realization... 30 1.3 doesn't = 34, but a 35!! But I think the message still remain pretty similar at the end, just slightly different energy.
I still don't know why he want an reaction from me. Maybe it is his poor attempt of trying to get me to 'talk about it'. He is the one that broke my heart, not the other way around. Maybe, like you said there is some strong emotion on happening to him (30) to while we were talking and having a great time, but instead of owning it, he rather bring up the girlfriend as a way to protect himself and feel that he is in control
BTW, Iching number 8, came up a lot in my reading with him in general,
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).