Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hello everyone! I wanted to ask your help to understand this romantic situation.
For various reasons in my life, I have quite a few insecurities concerning relationships. I am attracted to a person right now. A person who may or may not remain in my life, and who's currently living in a city several kms away. We are in good terms, but we haven't had many chances for intimacy. I think there's tenderness between us (we call each other cute names), but we don't really talk much. In part because she insisted a few times that she'd rather speak in person, and because I don't know exactly how to approach her. That's a silly reason, but hey! That's what's going on. There are other details which complicate this situation, but I'd rather keep them personal.
I asked the I-Ching many questions on this relationship in different phases over the span of a few weeks. I read you're not exactly supposed to do this, but the I-Ching is still a recent thing for me and I couldn't help myself! I'm not going to post all of the questions and the resulting hexagrams. I remember of one which suggested that I needed to be patient. I will just write the questions and the results, with an overall interpretation of the answers I've got.
"Should I start seeing someone else?"
Result: 43, 6th line changing.
"I have doubts that this will ever go anywhere, what should I do?"
52, 1st, 4th, 5th and 6th lines changing.
"Do I have God's blessing in this relationship?"
22, 3rd line and 6th lines changing.
At one point I asked her out, but it didn't materialize for a variety of reasons. She told me that lately she had some problems, and that she would let me know when she was available.
"I made a move to see her, so she knows I'm interested to know her better. Should I wait for her to make a move now?"
45, 5th and 6th lines changing.
"Is there anything I can do to positively attract her attention?"
20, 5th and 6th changing.
It looks to me like the oracle is telling me to be patient and wait. To persist and show consistent interest, but also to leave space. And, in the meantime, I should focus on my own life. This is going to take a while to materialize.
Thank you in advance!
For various reasons in my life, I have quite a few insecurities concerning relationships. I am attracted to a person right now. A person who may or may not remain in my life, and who's currently living in a city several kms away. We are in good terms, but we haven't had many chances for intimacy. I think there's tenderness between us (we call each other cute names), but we don't really talk much. In part because she insisted a few times that she'd rather speak in person, and because I don't know exactly how to approach her. That's a silly reason, but hey! That's what's going on. There are other details which complicate this situation, but I'd rather keep them personal.
I asked the I-Ching many questions on this relationship in different phases over the span of a few weeks. I read you're not exactly supposed to do this, but the I-Ching is still a recent thing for me and I couldn't help myself! I'm not going to post all of the questions and the resulting hexagrams. I remember of one which suggested that I needed to be patient. I will just write the questions and the results, with an overall interpretation of the answers I've got.
"Should I start seeing someone else?"
Result: 43, 6th line changing.
"I have doubts that this will ever go anywhere, what should I do?"
52, 1st, 4th, 5th and 6th lines changing.
"Do I have God's blessing in this relationship?"
22, 3rd line and 6th lines changing.
At one point I asked her out, but it didn't materialize for a variety of reasons. She told me that lately she had some problems, and that she would let me know when she was available.
"I made a move to see her, so she knows I'm interested to know her better. Should I wait for her to make a move now?"
45, 5th and 6th lines changing.
"Is there anything I can do to positively attract her attention?"
20, 5th and 6th changing.
It looks to me like the oracle is telling me to be patient and wait. To persist and show consistent interest, but also to leave space. And, in the meantime, I should focus on my own life. This is going to take a while to materialize.
Thank you in advance!