Clarity,
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Thank you, Yvonne! I don't disagree with what you say in general, but I think we have a very different definition of platonic love. To me, platonic love is the highest form of love that doesn't necessarily involve sex. It's something totally different than friendship. I too have male friends, and no, this situation is completely not like that.
Still, it's not a romantic relationship because we don't behave as two people in a romantic relationship. There are different rules of game involved when people pronounce their love and treat each other as a couple.
I understand.Also, my problem in the previous thread wasn't that I couldn't patiently wait for him to write. I can live with him not writing for months. The problem was he said he would write and then didn't. I just don't like when he doesn't keep his word. I see it as lack of respect.
However, the subject of this thread is "When the time will be right to end this relationship?" so as you see I did assume it'd have to end. I'd hate to wait three years!
It's interesting that you read it all so differently than everyone else,
but I'll give it some thought. In general, I just wouldn't want to make a mistake in any direction. I'll add that if I think there might be something more here I don't think of it in romantic terms. Rather, I think that perhaps it's an important experience or lesson.
Basically I already told him it'd have to end in several weeks. He's not too happy about it, but there's nothing he can do.
Thanks again!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).