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What path should I follow with my dad with regards of this situation?
11.2>36
Given all the circumstances of this situation, how should I go about this?
30.3.6>51
I don't know how old he is but an offer of help because he is getting older and needs to get his "papers" in order perhaps. He's your father,so you should know how to softly approach him, but I would presume he is indeed thinking of old age and death.
What can I do (discreetly) to help him open his eyes?
11.5>5
By servicing faithfully, you will win his trust.
More later.
Thanks Willowfox. Yes he has been sorting his papers and I've been helping when needed and will continue to do so whenever he needs me in the future. Can you see a link from these answers with the previous posts regarding this issue? (The sleepless nights with regards of the woman he has a relationship with which can 'devour' him if he is not cautious and my role in helping him with this particular situation?).
Please, any insights on the other answers would be very welcome, I'm repeating them here:
What will resolve this conflict?
53.4>33
How can I bring about the resolution of this problem?
5.3.4>58
By doing what?
39
When in time will I need to intervene?
46.1.2>36
How should I prepare?
25.5>21
Many thanks
What will resolve this conflict?
53.4>33
****What will resolve it is to find a way out of it, a place of safety, therefore keep the "demons" at bay.
How can I bring about the resolution of this problem?
5.3.4>58
****Draw out the enemy, expose them.
By doing what?
39
By setting up obstacles, making it difficult for the person to cheat, in that way the person will take greater chances and in doing so expose their guilt.
When in time will I need to intervene?
46.1.2>36
Now,
How should I prepare?
25.5>21
First by observing. The justice comes later.
Many thanks Willow
Based on this, I now asked the IC:
As I live far away from my father and the 'enemy', how can I in this situation, set obstacles to expose the enemy?
34
What kind of obstacles should I set up?
3.1>8
Many thanks :bows:
However, what's the point of the "Shared Readings" space in this forum if other's input shouldn't be taken into consideration?
...I suppose it is a matter of getting used to read it and learn from it but to learn we do need other's help don't we? That's why onlineclarity exists in the first place, or am I wrong?
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Trojan,
I am afraid I am the one who decides which interpretations are correct with respect to MY personal situation and I don't need to explain why.
Please, don't get personal or abusive as this is not the place for you to vent your frustrations.
Chill out and remember this site is for people to get insight into the IC and the answers it gives TO THEM with regards of the circumstances of THEIR LIVES.
Any interventions about the IC's answers are very welcome, otherwise, please abstain from giving me your opinion, I'm not interested.
Love and peace
PS: I tend to see 11.6 as something you are feeling as a result of what appears as his indifference to you. No idea if this is accurate, just an impression.
However I'll leave you in peace if you really want to believe what you are doing is an effective way to consult the I Ching you should be free to continue in this delusion unassailed (apparently)
PS: I tend to see 11.6 as something you are feeling as a result of what appears as his indifference to you. No idea if this is accurate, just an impression.
You seem to ignore MY words and feel free to address me in a very partronizing and agressive way. It is easy for anyone to see just by the way you express yourself who is the deluded one here.
lucia said:perdona dios pero hijo d puta es la unica k sale la boca!
Owl, you've said previously in this thread that because your father is a very private man, you don't know anything much about his relationship; you've only met his partner a couple of times and don't know her. Yet now you are perfectly sure you know "the REALITY of the situation": that this woman he has been with for ten years and presumably loves deeply is 'the enemy', a 'cancer' to be cut out, a threat, a deceiver to be exposed, and so on. How can this have happened, that you have become so sure?
There are many, many folk stories about wicked stepmothers, especially younger stepmothers, who insinuate themselves into an innocent and oblivious father's good graces so that he allows harm to come to his daughter. These deep-rooted folk stories have great power - maybe we're all already pre-programmed to believe in them by default. (How many women believe absolutely in Prince Charming? Or Beauty's power to transform the Beast?) You know next to nothing about your father's relationship; you wish you were in closer contact with him and knew more... and this old, old story fills that gap and carries you along. Of course it grips you and convinces you and feels 'right' and real: this is its power.
The danger, as I said before, is the damage you could do by pursuing this: to your father's happiness in his relationship, or to your own relationship with him, or both.
What I find patronising is the way you think you know better than your father as to how to run his life. I loathe that attitude to elderly people as if age blunts the brain and turns people into babies dios mio!
Secondly, I just counted your readings, and there are 28!!!!! 28 readings on one subject!!! I think its impossible to get any clarity when you just keep throwing over and over, with no pause for breath or contemplation. This is part of what I think Trojan and Hilary were trying to say, and not what you wanted to hear. Many of your questions seem to cover similar ground, thus increasing the confusion. This is why I haven't ventured to comment, because I wouldn't know where to start in the maze you have created for yourself.
A quick observation:
You may disagree, but you are also asking for help, so I'm assuming you aren't feeling much clarity here either. I say step away from the coins and engage with the world instead, flooding your mind with so many different readings will not take the uncertainty away or give you a clear roadmap for what to do next, if that were the case life would be a lot easier for all of us!!
Good luck with this, I hope things start to get clearer and calmer for you soon,
E
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