Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Hi, I did this reading yesterday for my relationship that has reached a crisis point. So here is my tale of woe. I have found my partner flirting with a lot of other women on facebook and he has admitted to stringing another lady along who is very attached to him the whole time we have been together (11 months) and he propositioned another for casual sex. He swore he'd change his ways and said I could look at his facebook interactions once a month until I had re-built some trust. Anyway things came to a head when he wouldn't let me look at his facebook after only one month had passed because he said "there are some things I just shouldn't have said" and he moved out. He was crying and seems remorseful. Anyway, I have a book about relationship abuse that says a 'player' is a type of abuser and my ex/partner has agreed to do a relationship violence course. I asked the i ching how I should approach the situation re making a decision about whether I should go down that path or let it go altogether. After looking at other threads about 40.4 > 7, I am not sure whether the reading is saying he will become one I can trust or to make way for someone I can trust. Any thoughts would be much appreciated
The guy has serious issues and it sounds like you may be in a co-dependent relationship with him.
The best thing I've found to do is break all contact and see what's happening in 3 months time. If there is a significant change within him then maybe reconsider but in my experience these sort of people rarely change. While your waiting out the 3 months work on your own self and see how you feel about it all in 3 months time. You may have a completely different outlook on thing and him. - Liss
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).