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jmarti29

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Howdy all,

I need some perspective on these readings. Bit of background: An ex and I broke up because of issues of me seeming distant and not as open as I was in the beginning, though in my heart I truly loved her and cherished our relationship. The relationship was excellent and we were both on the same page of keeping the momentum going. However, after a few months of losing my job and being unchallenged with life, had pushed her to cause the split. I have been feeling devastated along with a sense of it "ending too early." But there was a blessing in her leaving me: I found exactly what I needed to be happy and am overflowing with joy. And that joy is challenging myself and taking on new, expressive hobbies such as writing (which I'm really enjoying and now feel much more in-tune with myself) and more intense bodybuilding. I feel so fantastic and full of life again, but would love to share it with her again. I've been giving her lots of space and respect and have only communicated with her twice in our two months apart, and daily I am pushing myself to be the great man I once was.


I have consulted the Yi and asked for advice in furthering and rebuilding our relationship because I will be seeing her soon with a group of mutual friends.

My question to the Yi being: What is some advice to consider when seeing *her name* tonight that will help me in reestablishing a relationship with her?

I was given the 10.6 > 58

10.6:
Heaven shines down on the Marsh which reflects it back imperfectly:
Though the Superior Man carefully discriminates between high and low, and acts in accord with the flow of the Tao, there are still situations where a risk must be taken.

You tread upon the tail of the tiger.
Not perceiving you as a threat, the startled tiger does not bite.
Success.

Changing line 6: At your journey's end, look back and examine the path you chose.
If you find no causes for shame, only good works that make you shine, you may take this as an omen of the certainty of great reward.

58:
The joyous Lake spans on and on to the horizon:
The Superior Person renews and expands his Spirit through heart-to-heart exchanges with others.

Success if you stay on course.

Could you all break it down for me a bit more and give a new perspective?
 

diamanda

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Hi jmarti29,

What is some advice to consider when seeing *her name* tonight that will help me in reestablishing a relationship with her?
10.6 > 58


Do not tip-toe when you're around her.
Without any delay and without any 'intro', just speak with her.
And find out if she has anything to offer to you - regard this as you would a cash exchange.
 

jmarti29

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Thank you so much for your quick response! That forwardness is the actual type of communication she likes. But could you please elaborate more on the "find out if she has anything to offer to you" part?

Would also love to hear more insight on this situation.
 

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Can't offer more insight on this situation, because your question wasn't about the situation overall - it was a specific question about your attitude 'tonight'. So the answer applies to that question only, not on the whole situation (you'd have to ask a different question about that, but I'm not sure how helpful it would be).

could you please elaborate more on the "find out if she has anything to offer to you"
58 is an exchange - a bit like a commercial or financial exchange. What has she got to offer you? What can you give in exchange? A bit like bartering. What's in it for you? It's about practical considerations. It's about bargaining. In combination with "do not tip-toe", it means be confident, know what you have to offer, and see if she can match that. Does it make more sense?
 

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Oh okay, thank you again! I have now asked the question to the Yi: Please advise, what is my romantic situation with X and where will it head to?

It gave me 31.1.2.3 > 58. I would really appreciate further clarity one this if possible. It seems mostly obvious but would still love you all's insight.

31.1.2.3:
The joyous Lake is cradled by the tranquil Mountain:
The Superior Person takes great satisfaction in encouraging others along their journey.
He draws them to him with his welcoming nature and genuine interest.

Supreme success.
This course leads to marriage.

Changing lines 1,2,3 (According to my sources Line 2 take president in this reading, but have included the others.):
1: He skillfully hides his excitement, but is betrayed by the twitching of his big toe.
2:Nervously shaking his leg shows his irresistible urge to advance. Misfortune if he does. Good fortune if he doesn't.
3: Restless thighs signify impatience and a lack of restraint. He has lost his center and is obsessed with another. Humiliation.

And again hexagram 58:
The joyous Lake spans on and on to the horizon:
The Superior Person renews and expands his Spirit through heart-to-heart exchanges with others.

Success if you stay on course.
 

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