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Irmamata

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Hello. I am grateful if anyone can help. I am worried about a behaviour that I regard sort of as power struggles that have been rising between me and a friend since we started planning a project together. I get annoyed because she makes me wait for her, for long periods of time. I don't know if I should be patient for old times sake or if I should just go my own way. I tried to talk to my friend about my concerns regarding our differences and she said not to worry, she thinks we will learn to solve them, and the next second asked me to pull over and disappeared, again for 15 more minutes, to run another of her personal errands, as if I were her chauffeur. I didn't leave because she left her purse in my car, but when she returned I told her I was late for something in the opposite direction from her home and so I left her there. She crossed the line. I didn't get to know from her what I am doing that may be annoying her, therefore making her treat me like this.So I asked the I Ching: "Will our relationship become healthy enough to develop a positive project together?" I got 12.4.5.6>2.Is this the I Ching telling me the obstruction will disappear and we will come to peace together, Or the other way round, will I get peace if I go another direction?Thanks in advance.
 

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Will our relationship become healthy enough to develop a positive project together?
12.4.5.6 > 2


Sorry but I believe it will not.

I got this answer once about a person with a very similar behaviour towards me. It turned out that that person was of the type that basks in power games. Of that type of person who can actually never have healthy relations with any others.

The reading speaks of ulterior motives (12.4), making the other person wait to the point of despair (12.5), and finally ending the wait (12.6), only to come empty handed (2). Furthermore, 12 is a picture of the lowly remaining low and the high remaining high. Here the top 3 lines totally have the upper hand. Also 2 here might show that we need to accept the situation as it is.

and the next second asked me to pull over and disappeared, again for 15 more minutes, to run another of her personal errands, as if I were her chauffeur. I didn't leave because she left her purse in my car
She sounds so sick.
 

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Thank-you diamanda for your reply. And yep, this sickness is getting more consistent by the day. We are still involved in an early phase of a business project, but I cannot work with this person. I would like to pursue this project on my own, so I asked the IChing: How should I let go of her? and I got 12.5.6>16 Does this reading advise me to part from my friend or does it also refer the whole project and to go for a fresh start somewhere else?
 

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How should I let go of her? 12.5.6 > 16
Keep her waiting for a long time, then finally communicate, and tell her a fake excuse.

Does this reading advise me to part from my friend?
Your question was 'how to let go of her', so this presupposes that you've already decided to part.
 

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wow, cool! So I asked how things will go if I pursue this project on my own? Got 29.3.5>46 Should I interpret to let it all go and start something different from scratch?
 

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