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is K right about x
I have a situation with a dear friend of mine. She and I have a nice friendship, but increasingly we have a topic that seem to put us in a kind of opposition. She feels that a friend of mine has behaved badly and I feel she deserves more compassion and unwillingly to give up on her. I do understand what she sees and thinks, but I continue to try to see what happens. My friend is not jealous, she just feels that this woman will hurt me further, and since she is quite intuitive is very firm.
Now our friendship has somehow gotten into "let's talk about everything but the elephant in the room. So I asked the Yi "is K right about x?"
I read Wilhelm and get confused by this line other than the obvious part about factions:
Six in the second place means:
Fellowship with men in the clan.
Humiliation.
There is danger here of formation of a separate faction on the basis of personal and egotistic interests. Such factions, which are exclusive and, instead of welcoming all men, must condemn one group in order to unite the others, originate from low motives and therefore lead in the course of time to humiliation.
So this seems pretty straightforward...there are factions being created. It would suggest too wouldn't it that my friend is condemning my friend in order to unite us? But here it also says personal or egoistic interests is the reason for the condemnation. Hmmm...does that mean that her need to be right supersedes her care?
Then the other is advice given is that this behavior leads to humiliation...since my question is my friend right is right about x...does that mean in time my friend's view will prove to be wrong (hexagram 1)?
Lise writes:
6 at 2: Union of people at the ancestral temple. Distress.
Simple contacts, flexible, open and casual, make people know and love each other. Restrictions and mores - putting people or things in a box - prohibit them to be genuine and true and to appear like they really are.
This interpretation exactly reflects my discomfort...don't like putting people box.
Thank you for any experiences or insight...
G7
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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