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We broke up last night...
This suggests that all will go well in the future between you, any past upsets or other problems will slowly recede away and you will enjoy each other's company once again. It has a future you just have to be there to make it happen.
We were together up to that point but there obviously was no future.
This most certainly didn't sound as anything but good...
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What I also think is that it's possible you may reunite.
Either he will return, or someone you already know and care for may return to you life and connect with you in a much better way.*Better* meaning a way that suits you, and your needs at this time
The part of Willow's post that you put in bold most certainly does sound completely good. But you're also choosing to ignore the condition that she put there, and which she reiterated, which is that you both have to be there to take advantage of the positive conditions described.
See, when the Yi talks about the future, it doesn't write its predictions in stone, and neither do most of the people who interpret on this board. There's ALWAYS the choices of the people involved and the power of accident that can knock the situation off the rails. So when you work with oracles and you're asking questions about the future, it's a likelihood, not a promise. The problem is not with Willow's interpretation, but with your upset right now, and you have every reason to be upset considering how things have turned out. But don't blame the oracle or find fault with the people who are struggling to make it clearer to you.
I asked today "How is our relationship going to develop in the future?" and I got hexagram 12 > 24
No, I'm sorry, that's not how I meant it! I appologise if it sounded like that. I am most grateful for the interpretation, and if i didn't trust I wouldn't ask.
I am still clumsy in interpreting it myself and I hope that it does not disqualify me from asking for help here. That is actually why I'm doing it.
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trust what ? You gotta remember no one here has more knowledge about your future than you do. This is just a place where people share their perspectives on readings - not a place where you need trust what any member says. The way i see it theres no one right way of interpreting a reading - different people will see it different ways - there will of course be one right way for you because its your answer but only you know that because only you know the reality of the situation behind the question.
I don't see 13 to 22 as indicating any great potential in how the relationship develops more like minor potential. 13 does not in my experience refer to romance but to friendship bonds and 22 as a relating hexagram shows lack of depth in the bond to me - so I don't think if you worked at it there would necessarily be any great relationship
trust what ? This is just a place where people share their perspectives on readings - not a place where you need trust what any member says
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The way I see it is that, no matter whether we get back together or move further away from each other, it will be for the best. Or am I reading it too optimistically?
Trust the others' opinions, trust my ability to hear other people's point of view and, in combination with my knowledge about the given situation, to draw a possible valid conclusion. Don't see any wrong with that.
Thank you for your interpretation of 12>24, I think that it is actually the most realistic follow-up: no one can stay in a period of stagnation forever and it is auspicious that 24 is what follows. The way I see it is that, no matter whether we get back together or move further away from each other, it will be for the best. Or am I reading it too optimistically?
In considering the two readings involved here, 13.4.5 > 22 would indicate to me that there is a strong dynamic between you - the fifth line clearly describes hardships two whose hearts are aligned are likely to experience, yet suggests a joyful outcome if they're able to overcome it. 22 resulting might cause me to ask whether this is a connection of great permanence, though.
WIlhelm's interpretation of 24.2 is Quiet Return, Good Fortune. He goes on to say that this is about self mastery, that if one can put aside pride and follow the example of good men, good fortune results.
Which brings us right back to your comment, that the best result will come about to the degree we don't interfere (Inject our ego) into the situation. Does that make sense?
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