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17.3.4.5 to 36 love question

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This saga has continued. Very long story short, we saw each other again, right before he was leaving for a monthlong international trip. Everything seemed different and I was happy. He texted me almost every day throughout his trip. When he returned, I asked to see him, and he invited me to spend New Year's Eve with him, but told me that he had met someone on his trip and she would be traveling here to visit him soon. So, I really yelled and unloaded everything. In some ways I feel ready to be done, but then I start wanting to believe that maybe once I'm done, he'll come back and realize he wants me. So I asked:

General diagnosis of the relationship — 22.4.6 to 55
"He will woo at the right time" is feeding so strongly into my dumb sense of hope, but overall, this could also just be Too Much Superficiality or An Abundance of Bullshit, basically

To interrogate that dumb sense of hope, I asked if he *would* come back and want to be with me, and I got — 63.2.3.5 to 19
Again, I want to interpret this positively when I read the lines, the idea of just waiting and then something being returned, struggling for three years, sincerity winning out in the end — but it could just be that the Approach is Already Completed.
 

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Hello thisworldcompany!

Would he come back and want to be with me? 63.2.3.5 to 19

What could happen between you has already happened (63)- it could refer to his pattern of coming and going. "That's it". He may approach you again (19) just to leave you later (misfortune in the 8th month).

63.2: "A lady loses her carriage curtain. Without seeking it, it will be regained within seven days." He comes back on his own...
63.3: "The emperor Kao Tsung chastised the barbarian country and conquered it in three years. The inferior man should no longer be employed." But you shouldn't receive him anymore; though forgetting him- getting rid of all the hopes and frustrations- is hard and takes time.
63.5: "The neighbor in the east who slaughters an ox does not attain as much real happiness as the neighbor in the west with his small offering." Instead of spending lots of your emotional resources on this guy, you have better to do a small offering: letting him go for good. He isn't really present in your life, so you don't lose anything real.

Good Luck!
 

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