18.2.6>15 and 18.4.6>32 for relationship... but also surgery

[CuriousGeorge]

Hi team,

I'm recently single and after casually dating for a bit I found somebody who I feel very seriously interested in, we've seen each other three times but are both extremely busy and it's generally far between dates without much communication. I asked if I could make her dinner tomorrow and she said that would be great, but I just had a hernia surgery scheduled for Weds, so I texted and let her know I couldn't do it anymore and told her about the surgery (probably TMI, and shows some weakness which is unattractive in a man) but I feel like with how rarely we get to see or talk to each other, it's hard to keep any sort of momentum going and she'll likely lose interest (she's way more attractive than I am as well). I asked where she and I stand after I cancelled due to surgery and got 18.2.6>15 and then asked what I can do to keep her interested and got 18.4.6>32 which are confusing to me. I can't tell if the 18 hex is referring to the hernia repair, or the relationship is deteriorating, or maybe both. None of these sound promising, and 18>32 makes me worry that the health issues surrounding the hernia repair might be ongoing. 18.4 is always confusing as it refers to a father, but I never knew my father. I would greatly appreciate any insight in interpretation. Thanks!!

 

[Trojina]

18.6 is saying you needn't give a damn about what she thinks of you. Take back your dignity and for goodness sake please change that awful name you have of 'nobodygoingnowhere'.

Why would anyone give themselves a horrible hopeless name like that !

It's also too long - call yourself something nice because that name makes you sound like a hopless victim which as it happens Yi is saying you most certainly are not !

You are creeping around like what she thinks really matters and it doesn't - it really doesn't even matter to you, she just isn't even that important to you.

I asked where she and I stand after I cancelled due to surgery and got 18.2.6>15 and then asked what I can do to keep her interested and got 18.4.6>32 which are confusing to me. I can't tell if the 18 hex is referring to the hernia repair, or the relationship is deteriorating, or maybe both. None of these sound promising, and 18>32 makes me worry that the health issues surrounding the hernia repair might be ongoing. 18.4 is always confusing as it refers to a father, but I never knew my father. I would greatly appreciate any insight in interpretation. Thanks!!

One thing is for sure, you don't need to be trying to make her stay interested - read line 6 in some decent translation.

I think the 15 shows that where you stand is exactly where you left it. You rang her and told her you had an operation, so she thinks you are having an operation and hence cannot come to dinner. However even as a friend if you are having an operation surely you would expect a visit from her if she's worth anything at all. 18.2.6>32 suggests you carry on your life as usual, not needing to adapt to her or what she thinks and recognize these beliefs you have about her/things possibly come from mother issues of yours (18.2) so wherever there was some interruption in mothering you have carried them along in to this.


As a kid it is terribly important to be on the right side of our parents, they are so big and powerful. But now even though it feels like that it isn't true about this woman who Yi says has no power at all.


I think a very good start to the rest of your life would be to change that horrible user name -

See what she does to cheer you up and support you following your operation. If she does nothing she is worth nothing at all to you so find someone else who can be bothered to give you some of their time.

 

[CuriousGeorge]

Haha wow brutal but very refreshing. Thank you Trojina, I really appreciate the interpretations. I've changed my username