22.2.3.6 to 19 relationship between me and my crush.And making a move.

[dorizs]

I recently asked i ching about my love life. At work, I have a strong crush on a guy and I felt that he maybe interested in me too.We didn't talk often, but when we did, I felt that maybe he likes me too but hes a little shy, but Im not sure about that. I have tought about maybe take the lead and make the next step towards him.Specifially I thought Ill add him on social media,but I have a fear maybe Im too desperate. I don't know if this would be a good idea. I received the same message twice for this. I got hexagram 22 (grace), and changing to 19(approach) .And another time I received 2 (receptive power) to 19.
My question was about this situation and the overral relationship between me and him.
I hope you can help me with this interpetation.
Also sorry for my english its not my first language.

 

[Hans_K]

Hi Dorisz,
H22 is about beautifying, adorning.
In light of your question, you could also think of this as hitting on someone, flirting. Giving signals that you like someone.
H19 is about approaching. This can be seen as approaching someone, but also as being approachable, being open to contact.
So H22 <> H19 can be seen as sending signals to the other person (by flirting) that you are open to contact.
You approach him by flirting so that he knows he can make contact with you.

The moving lines together form the trigram Wind that turns into Thunder.
This is about being obsessed with details instead of seeing the whole picture. It is putting things off again and again.
Thunder advises taking the initiative, making a start, making a decision and acting on it.
The Wind - Thunder combination also shows that once a decision is made to be approachable, the further process should be gradual.

My interpretation of this answer would be that you should send signals that you like him and are open to contact by flirting with him.
Once that contact is there, let the relationship develop step by step.

As always, take what resonates and leave the rest