I was friends with a group of 3 siblings I've known for some time. They're all a few years younger than I. There seemed to be some vibe compatibility between us. The main difference is that I'm quite more conservative and intellectually oriented. They came out of a few years of disorders in...

I recently asked i ching about my love life. At work, I have a strong crush on a guy and I felt that he maybe interested in me too.We didn't talk often, but when we did, I felt that maybe he likes me too but hes a little shy, but Im not sure about that. I have tought about maybe take the lead...

Hello all! I am very new to reading these so I am just wanting some confirmation or insight from someone more skilled that I. A girl and I have been dating for about a month now. We have had an amazing time together. We really seem to be into one another and enjoy the time we spend. She is...

Hi everyone, my first post here. 3 years ago I split up with my first love. We were both young and some things had happened which I couldn’t deal with and became distant. I realised things could become toxic and so I decided the best course of action, though I loved her deeply and she loved me...

Dear community, After being single for 2 years, I met someone I like who I've been dating for 1,5 months. We've known other for +15 years because of common friends. He's very reserved and slowly warming up to me, but he stated he's not ready for a relationship right now and wants to take things...

Hello I hope you can guide me a little about this question and I heard the answer that the teacher gave me. I asked what mistake am I making to not achieve a relationship? This question came to me after a hard internal reflection, since I realized that I was not able to establish myself in a...

I have a friend and for the past few months I didn't know if I wanted her in a romantic relationship. Now I understand that I want her for a romantic relationship And I got these results: Hex 55, lines 1,2,5,6 are chaning. The second hex is 44. According to these results, should I try to make a...

I asked I Ching about my friend with whom we have a very strong connection. In the last few days I feel confused about my relationship with her and maybe I want to try to develop a romantic relationship with her. But there are some problems, the first problem is that I stopped talking to a good...

My relationship with my romantic interest has been growing rapidly in recent months and we're closer than ever, but yesterday when I asked him if we had the potential to be more serious he said he wasn't sure if he was mentally or emotionally capable of handling a serious relationship at this...

Hey I ask I ching a lot about a girl that I really like and have feelings for her long time. I tried couple of time to date her and told her my emotions about her but unfortunately she doesnt feel the same... Both of us want to keep talking and keep in touch, but its hard for me because I dont...

Hi again. I asked the yi about my romantic situaion regarding a certain guy, specifically for 2023. We have been in touch very often but it does not seem like he wants more than what we have ie nice talks about common interests (i admit he is a bit of a player and might have several non binding...

I recently just asked how an ex truly feels about me because I just had an entire conversation with him regarding us and he someone who never is honest with his true feelings and the I Ching gave me 36 changing line 4 to hexagram 55. Can anyone interpret this for me? Also I blocked him because I...

Hi novice in iching and english, I having some difficult situation overcoming a crush on my recently best friend from college, i confess some time ago (in may-22) my feelings for him i said how good i feel around him and was rejected, but he was kind and said that he wants to see each other...

Hello! I would love to have some feedback for this 53.3 hexagram advise. I asked ICHING for advice " Where can I find love? " - - - meaning a new romantic courtship with mutual attraction. I got 53.3 -> 20. My backstory regarding this question is that I have tried online dating for months...

Hello I am trying to move on but I keep dreaming of the person, unable to shake the strong feeling that he is also feeling the same way or visiting me in my dreams. Trying to understand what it all means as he asked before that we don’t talk anymore. But he is in my head all the time, seemingly...

I haven't had so much luck in my love life. I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and suffered a lot from it... because I really wanted it to work out. In fact, after all this time, there is a part of me that still wants to be with him. On the other hand, I am moving on and been dating a few...

Through a series of events in the past year and some months, I've been dealing with issues revolving romance where I'm seeking too much from the outside and not letting myself grow under the circumstances of walking through life alone. Recently broke up with ex and I'm thinking of not seriously...

Hello, It’s the first time I post on this forum. I am a non native english speaker, I’m sorry if my english is poor… I asked IC about a girl I met 2 years ago. I had never experienced such feelings. Since Covid-19, I couldn’t meet her again. I consider this person as my soul mate. It’s a...

hi, first time posting although i read the forums quite regularly! i currently feel stuck in the middle of many big decisions that the pandemic put on hold, the biggest being moving. my partner and i live in her childhood home with her father, rent-free. i moved in on the grounds this was a...

Hi, I am asking about a long-distance relationship that had become very enmeshed. We were both aware we needed to step back without actually wanting it to end. I find myself gaining confidence while we don't talk, then I have something to share and I share it, and it's lovely, and then I tip...