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22.3.4>21 What's the prospect finding a girlfriend or hav a relationship anytime soon

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22.3.4>21 What's the prospect finding a girlfriend or hav a relationship anytime soon

I asked Iching the prospect of a gf/relationship happening in my life anytime soon.
I received Hex 22.3.4>21
According to the book (pdf) with Legge translation I have, following lines of Hex 22 changing to 21:
"3. The third NINE, undivided, shows its subject with the appearance of being adorned and bedewed (with rich favors). But let him ever maintain his firm correctness, and there will be good fortune.
4. The fourth six, divided, shows one looking as if adorned, but only in white. As if (mounted on) a white horse, and furnished with wings, (he seeks union with the subject of the first line), while (the intervening third pursues), not as a robber, but intent on a matrimonial alliance."
It sounds positive but I wonder if there is somebody already around and I am not seeing that opportunity? Or these lines are merely some advice about what to do? And what is the function and meaning of Hex 21 in all these?
Thank you all in advance if you decide to give me your interpretations. :)
 

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22. Vision, dream, fantasy - 21. Obstacle.
I think the IC is saying your desire to have a girlfriend is obstructed for the near future. Is there any thing going on that might be seen as an obstacle? A wife? A job that has you working long hours? A rusted out vehicle sitting on your front lawn? Something is blocking you...
 
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Thank You Rosada. The answer was different to how I thought it would be. I have been trying to settle with a meaningful relationship for the last two years with no success. And it became the main struggle in my life now effecting everything, you know all that human desire to have a good connection to life through a relationship. Since I am a family oriented person without one for almost a decade, it seems an irreducible desire now to make a good home before getting too old. As far as I could think of an obstacle , no wife, job or car issue. Could it be an internal as well as an external obstacle? Trying to contemplate on that now.
 

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I asked Iching the prospect of a gf/relationship happening in my life anytime soon.
I received Hex 22.3.4>21
According to the book (pdf) with Legge translation I have, following lines of Hex 22 changing to 21:
"3. The third NINE, undivided, shows its subject with the appearance of being adorned and bedewed (with rich favors). But let him ever maintain his firm correctness, and there will be good fortune.
4. The fourth six, divided, shows one looking as if adorned, but only in white. As if (mounted on) a white horse, and furnished with wings, (he seeks union with the subject of the first line), while (the intervening third pursues), not as a robber, but intent on a matrimonial alliance."
It sounds positive but I wonder if there is somebody already around and I am not seeing that opportunity? Or these lines are merely some advice about what to do? And what is the function and meaning of Hex 21 in all these?
Thank you all in advance if you decide to give me your interpretations. :)
No 22 to No. 21:
- you will see a girl BUT the winner is your friend, first;
- After that, aboutthe end of this year, you will be success with other nice girl.
 

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Trying to think what the obstacle might be...
I think 22 is describing your fantasy girl and your desire to play the part of the knight in shinning armor and you somehow haven't been able to bring that vision into reality. 23 talks about the importance of having clear laws. I wonder if that could point to you needing to have a stronger sense of what you are looking for in a partner? Maybe you should write out a very detailed description - and at the end write "This or some one better." You wouldn't have to stick to this list necessarily, but sometimes putting desires in writing makes us notice - or attract - new opportunities in the world.
 
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No 22 to No. 21:
- you will see a girl BUT the winner is your friend, first;
- After that, aboutthe end of this year, you will be success with other nice girl.
It already happened last year and the girl I was seeing is now with someone I know. That's so uncanny.I am freaked out but I don't know whether your answer could be applied retrospectively if so you're spot on.Thank you kttuan especially for the encouraging prediction for the future. It gave me a bit of fresh air. At the moment, there is an attraction with a girl who is a lot younger than me. It is kind of not going anywhere possibly due to our incompatibilities, not only age gap but very different worlds that we belong to. Also my hesitations about them.But I will keep trying until I find my princess. Thanks!
 

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Thank so much kupeli for reply.
hihi i am not encouraging you, I just tell the "truth". good luck.:)
PS: it is not affected to result, however If i am not wrong, the new girl was born in rat year in lunar calendar, or around (1972, 1984, 1996...plus minus 12 ).
 
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Trying to think what the obstacle might be...
I think 22 is describing your fantasy girl and your desire to play the part of the knight in shinning armor and you somehow haven't been able to bring that vision into reality. 23 talks about the importance of having clear laws. I wonder if that could point to you needing to have a stronger sense of what you are looking for in a partner? Maybe you should write out a very detailed description - and at the end write "This or some one better." You wouldn't have to stick to this list necessarily, but sometimes putting desires in writing makes us notice - or attract - new opportunities in the world.

Thank You Rosada for your kind response to my post. Yes I think I am too stiff and uncompromising. I have a picture of myself as a partner who is not a real human being but a hero, the best lover, the most romantic and the most charming. As you stated" a knight in shining armor". That may be true in really small quantities from time to time about me in ways I can be but that's not who I want to be. I want to be a normal guy who has already accepted his shortcomings and strengths, unadorned and authentic. I am studying a lot about these issues and finding that my self perception and my real self are different people in ways that when it comes to romantic affairs I become too tense and artificial just to satisfy who I think I need to be. Trying to live up to the image that I created in my own mind. Also on the other hand, the relationship in my dream is not realistic; all or nothing, eternal, perfect, to be the indispensable partner who has no alternative in this world. As soon as I fail to deliver these in reality, my disappointment turns into anger , insecurity and withdrawal. Your response is working more like a mirror that gives me the feeling, I need to come back down to earth first. I am no prince with all the luck in the world. Need to relax my requirements of how I and my prospective partners need to be. I am making that list that you recommended now to self reflect whether I can learn more about myself and succeed on finding a partner and building a healthy relationship that has some promise. Thanks A lot.
 

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