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Still 2 questionsSorry, what I meant by the second part was: where is the relationship at this present moment?
In the past year I got close to and fell in love with someone, and she fell in love with me too. However, she has been in an on and off again relationship for eight years now. For the past year or so they were not together but he has now come back into her life at the very moment it seemed like she was ready to move on. To cut a long story short, she has told me that she doesn't know how to truly end things with him right now and that while she does care for me, she cannot leave him right now even though she has confided to me that she doesn't think she even loves him anymore. And they have since rekindled their relationship. Now, by all accounts, this person she is with is hugely manipulative, emotionally abusive and only holding on to her because he found out that someone else was interested. He is also going through a hard time in his life and has had a pretty hard life in general, or so it appears. [/indent]
I have accepted this by now. I know I need to find steadiness and peace within myself and not look for it without.
The question previous to this one that I consulted the Yi for helped with that. The question was, " How do I face the situation with _______ for the next month or so in order to be at peace myself and be at peace with her?" The reading I got was 32.4.5. > 48. That is, Duration changing to The Well.
Her and I have resolved to remain good friends and not disappear into the shadows of each other's lives.
However, I keep finding myself wondering how she is doing in what will eventually be a very hard place in a relationship with her boyfriend. So I asked the Yi a very different question to what I am used to. Till now I have only ever asked the Yi to comment and help me with my present situation and life. This time I asked, "Please tell me what state of mind _____ is in right now and what is kind of time is her relationship with him in this present moment?"
The answer I got was 23.6>2 That is, Splitting Apart to the Receptive.My confusion is now to figure out whether the Yi has answered my question or is it still giving me a reading on my life and MY present moment. I am very confused as it could mean different things depending on what the Yi is answering.
Could it be that Splitting apart is refering to splitting your original question in 2 seperate questions? You are asking 2 things in your original question:
- state of mind
- not sure what you mean right there but it seems to be a second question.
Still 2 questions
It probably is better to ask those questions seperatly. Now you do not know which question is answered
"Please tell me what state of mind _____ is in right now and what is kind of time is her relationship with him in this present moment?"
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).