28.2.3 -> 45 (greetings willow & dobro)

[christeen]

Hi. I've been away a long time but never too far.

Hi Willow. If you can recall, you wrote that you expected the B&M relationship to peak around Nov 20th and then start to fizzle out by feb 2007. Well, I have seen B & M together in 2 separate social occasions and the body language is not healthy. There is no obvious closeness physically and the ga-ga eyes between lovers are absent too. After nearly 4 months ???? Hmmmm...

Well, last night I asked Yi to show me an image of B & M relationship and drew 28.2.3 -> 45.

Now 28.2 , please explain????
And how does 45 relate??

Then I also asked "what can I expect from B this week?"
57.1.2.3.6 -> 3

I hardly (never??) get so many changing lines which seem to indicate that things are far from static where B is concerned. I also always remember what Dobro says when he gets multiple lines, that he ignores them and just looks at the primary and secondary hexagrams.

So, Dobro, how about giving this a go?

Funnily enough, the changing lines in 57 all have to do with 'penetration'...... could something, realisation of some sort finally be penetrating B's thick head?

Interested to hear your readings.... I have moved beyond being sensitive and being hurt with whatever you see this readings to mean. So, speak your mind..... I am strong and ugly enough now to listen.

 

[willowfox]

Hi christeen,

"Well, last night I asked Yi to show me an image of B & M relationship and drew 28.2.3 -> 45.

Hex 28.2 Well, B has a younger M hanging out with me, it makes him feel young at heart again, gives him new life for the moment.

Hex 28.3 Here is the time, when this relationship starts to break down, eventually leading to total collaspe. He cannot make any further progress with M. "His ridgepole sags".

Hex 45 Is about gathering together with others, such as a group, a time for him to do new things, to go visit someone who can be of help to him. It seems to suggest that he is alone and looking to join with others, old friends/new friends.


"Then I also asked "what can I expect from B this week?"
57.1.2.3.6 -> 3

Hex 57.1 He is indecisive, has no idea what to do.

Hex 57.2 He thinks that someone is working against him(he thinks so anyway, probably a fantasy).

Hex 57.3 He cannot take any kind of action because he just cannot make up his mind as to what to do.

Hex 57.6 His head is in a complete muddled, he is lost in his own thinking, so therefore no action will happen.

Hex 3 Again his mind is in chaos, so no progress can be made at the moment (this week), he needs to seek out advise. But this is the beginning of a new cycle for him, after a while he can indeed do something, to grow towards the light.
Hex 3 indicates the time between 1st to 7th of December.

So, "what can I expect from B this week?" Nothing.

 

[christeen]

Hey willow. hope you are well. Thanks for that. Pretty much summarises what I thought but you verbalise much better than I.

Interesting... what you said about hex 45. You were not to know that hes suddenly come back to dance classes and the social events around it. He has been very very friendly to me, showing me extra attention too.

I asked Yi. "what best to do about B". The answer 64.1.4.5 -> 61

Another interesting reading, eh? The picture is gaining focus. What do you think?

 

[willowfox]

Hi christeen,

"I asked Yi. "what best to do about B". The answer 64.1.4.5 -> 61"

Hex 64.1 Bide your time, as the time is not right to make any kind of move on B.

Hex 64.4 It is now the time to prepare yourself for whatever may happen, get rid of those doubts and fortify your thinking.

Hex 64.5 Okay, here it all comes together, and all goes well, you should gain what you seek, success.

Hex 61 This is about dealing with a difficult person, how you must approach in the right way. Be friendly, sincere and open to him, speak from the heart, then you will be able to get inside his head (cross the river)and influence him, thus winning him over to your side. Try to understand why he did what he did in the past, but be understanding, not criticising, and be lenient/forgiving. This is all about truth, and not self interest, self interest will only lead to problems later on.

 

[dobro p]

"Well, last night I asked Yi to show me an image of B & M relationship and drew 28.2.3 -> 45."

The relationship goes beyond what's normal or expected, moving toward get-togethers that are more public than personal. (On a micro level, forces are moving in different directions in the relationship: one force is rejuvenation, one force collapses.)

"Then I also asked "what can I expect from B this week?" 57.1.2.3.6 -> 3"

Penetrating the foundations of the relationship between you and B brings you to a new beginning.

Okay, I've read your tosses. Now, in exchange I'd like you to consider what I have to say about the way you're asking the Yi for information about people in a relationship when really you have no business asking or knowing about that. If B and M are in a relationship, that's their business, not yours. You have a right to want to know, but you don't have a right to get the knowledge by roundabout means - they have a right to their privacy.

What you *do* have a right to know is what you should be doing with regard to B, and that's what you should be asking the Yi about.

I'm bailing from the line of enquiry you're pursuing in this thread in future because I don't like the way it makes me feel.

 

[christeen]

Hi Willow.

Thanks again for your insight.

Hi Dobro. Thanks for responding. I respect your wish to withdraw. My apologies for makingyou uncomfortable. Of course,its none of my business what transpires between B and M..... guess Iam still looking for closure. Boy,this sure has been a long drawn out affair. Too true,what will happen to B & M will happen when it happens and I guess I will find out after it happens rather than before.

Yup. You have given me food for thought.Thanks for your time.

 

[dobro p]

My apologies for makingyou uncomfortable.

You didn't make me uncomfortable. If I was in your position, I'd probably feel very similarly. (That's why I said you have a right to *want* to know.) No - what makes me uncomfortable in this thread is my participation in something which I think is not the best use of the oracle. But I'll contribute sometimes if I think it'll be the vehicle for something else I want to say.