Clarity,
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What do you mean?I know people who married late and are still awkward in each other's company after years.
Nooooooo, don’t even think that! You are so young.In 32 half of your youthful years are already gone.
You have asked a question specifically about the sexual side of your marriage and then expressed your concerns about having a dull marriage that happens late in life for you and which you fear will be sexless.Among other things I asked:
How will be my marriage sexually? 28.5> 32
After some questions I said: "But I don't want a late, sexless, dull marriage". The answer: 28.5>32 again.
@BlindedFox ,
Let's look at the line's translation:
Line 5: ‘Withered willow sprouts flowers,
Venerable wife gets an upright husband.
No blame, no praise.’ [Hilary]
I see nothing that indicates domination/submission; it clearly says no blame, no praise; so while there will be no children, no problem is indicated either.
32- the result hexagram- shows permanence and based on some authors, it is the hexagram of marriage. So I can't see why the line should say "it can't last", unless the patriarchal views that always look for a way to
How will be my marriage sexually?
28.5> 32; 28.5 is about a younger person submitting to an older person, out of respect, genuine love, sexual curiosity, mommy issues or pure ignorance. This older person, goodlooking, wealthy or both. has no real interest nor the emotional ability to have or nurture children (proyects or goals in common) with this younger person but is only seeking somebody to control, to satisfy her/his needs to feel finally empowered, which means she or he felt worthless for quite a while in life and is taking it out on somebody with real values and love for her/him. The ICHING speaks about an elderly woman, but in my humble opinion, its about a person that has so many demands, She/he will never be satisfied (32), so the person will keep looking for younger persons, who she (or he) can dominate until her (his) ego is feeling better. Then there will be a discard unless the younger person is willing to be a slave to her/him and give up on their own dreams. Of course the elderly person is in a disadvantage here, because her/his fear of death makes her unbearable, and sooner or later she/he will end up alone, with nothing to show for.1 time a mistake, 2 times a pattern, 3 times a habit. Have fun, time flies.
and this:This person (hex44 type), even though opposed to patriarchy or any system that allows dominating masculinity, will use it to her/his advantage.
and this:Your interpretation is really sweet. Good for you, karmic points for your super kindness. Will she benefit from it? Maybe.
and considering that it's the venerable female who is doomed in the end, it should be the picture of my marriage:1 time a mistake, 2 times a pattern, 3 times a habit. Have fun, time flies.
Wanting to tame the young buck, using looks or experience, sound like a lot of fun, but what happens to a young husband and his old wife? He cannot stay, 32.5 is clear as water on it.
This older person, goodlooking, wealthy or both. has no real interest nor the emotional ability to have or nurture children (proyects or goals in common) with this younger person but is only seeking somebody to control, to satisfy her/his needs to feel finally empowered, which means she or he felt worthless for quite a while in life and is taking it out on somebody with real values and love for her/him. The ICHING speaks about an elderly woman, but in my humble opinion, its about a person that has so many demands, She/he will never be satisfied (32), so the person will keep looking for younger persons, who she (or he) can dominate until her (his) ego is feeling better. Then there will be a discard unless the younger person is willing to be a slave to her/him and give up on their own dreams. Of course the elderly person is in a disadvantage here, because her/his fear of death makes her unbearable, and sooner or later she/he will end up alone, with nothing to show for.
28. Great exceeding-, too much force, the person, having success is riding hard on line 4, another person with personal balance. She /him relies on his balance for own balance. This person (hex44 type), even though opposed to patriarchy or any system that allows dominating masculinity, will use it to her/his advantage. It is the black point in the white flow, the king of masculinity or inflexibility is a woman/flexible mind using it to HER advantage, instead of being used, as seen in line 2. In line 5, she is venerable, she is in good shape, her rep is fine, she is still o feels still beautiful, And she gets someone who wants to please her, he is there for here. Since patriarchy means family hierarchies, and the ICHING is full of elder sons and youngest daughters, and grandmothers and so on, could mean that 28.5 is a person who knows it can´t last because, the relationship with the upright husband, it produces nothing that really grows, as cattle, families or countries. Its just her/him, getting taken cared of, having little affairs, no blame nor praise, hush hush, weekend love, nothing out the ordinary etc, essentialy free from any guilt of attaching again. and the most important thing: she/him has been and is certainly now full commited to the concept for an extend time to come (32). Imagine it over time and you will see the great exceeding or the fluctuation. Its a one way street for a reason.
The line presents her merely as an older woman with an upright husband, the you count all these bad characteristics for her. OK. Personal view.3 lurking beneath, flowers sprouting, or if you want, requiring more and more adornments to keep the effects of aging away. I don't see future goals in common with the other except SEX, mostly attention seeking with no real interest for a deeper bond, are these <<incouraging>> signs? Wanting to tame the young buck, using looks or experience, sound like a lot of fun, but what happens to a young husband and his old wife? He cannot stay, 32.5 is clear as water on it.
So, to resume, Hex 28, Loneliness, Critical Mass, Sadness and Inflexibility, twice, Meltingpot247, it does not sounds super positive and it looks more like an attitude problem, pride and avoiding deeper bonds. And who cares about time? When you are venerable, an aging human female posing as divine for young males to worship, how can it go wrong? How can it be ugly or why is it that neither blame (feeling responsibility) or praise (benefit for others) are mentioned?
Such comments aren't uncommon here when a woman says she wants a hot partner or cares about sex.I don't see future goals in common with the other except SEX, mostly attention seeking with no real interest for a deeper bond, are these <<incouraging>> signs?
Well, if you believe that the normal position for a woman is to be used and not care about her own needs/wants- to forget about "her dreams" and give away to the man's whims- then I have nothing to add. This argument won't lead to anywhere. You can keep on posting by the way.This person (hex44 type), even though opposed to patriarchy or any system that allows dominating masculinity, will use it to her/his advantage. It is the black point in the white flow, the king of masculinity or inflexibility is a woman/flexible mind using it to HER advantage, instead of being used, as seen in line 2.
The woman with power isn't doomed, even if she's left by the younger man. At least she doesn't need to worry about her basic needs, unlike many younger women who marry older men and bear children, then have to deal with former wives and their children, fight upon the heritage and worry about the future. Source: personal observation.Of course the elderly person is in a disadvantage here, because her/his fear of death makes her unbearable, and sooner or later she/he will end up alone, with nothing to show for.1 time a mistake, 2 times a pattern, 3 times a habit. Have fun, time flies.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).