29.1.4>58 working on communication

[Icecoldkitkat]

I'm relatively new to I Ching. Working through this encounter guided by castings to help me understand what's needed to move. It's been a great help and a way of discovery in terms of my attitude towards others, my expectations and shortcomings. I have realised that I need to improve communication with this special someone in order to move on regardless if our relationship status. So asked ----Why does it feel awkward when working to build decent communication with this certain someone? --- 29.1.4>58 since I set this goal to improve the communication between us it's been better. We started to actually have conversations instead of just sending silly one word emoji filled texts. It might have been me that all time? Anyhow I don't see how I can put 29.1.4>58 into workings here. I understand line 1 and 4 relate and it's not great although both hex's are positive. Is Yi simply describing what's going on? We have been coming back and forth trying to get closer. Each time it we got a little better at being open (or I have, I think he's been quite good but not patient or persistent enough with me - not saying that's bad cause I don't want to build dependancy) he's probably giving me a lot of space to grow without even knowing how big this is for me. So that's ---line 1--- repetition. Line 4??? Doesn't seem to be great, my efforts are not recognised? Not sure how to implement this casting. Haven't found much about 29.1.4>58. Any input greatly appreciated

 

[diamanda]

Why does it feel awkward when working to build decent communication with this certain someone?
29.1.4>58
29.1 - because the situation is indeed very dangerous, full of pits.
29.4 - simple messages through the 'window' (computer or device) are the best that can be achieve.

58 shows there's still trading and negotiating going on, so you'll still want to keep trying.