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32.1.2 > 55. What are the prospects of getting into a relationship this year?

arbole

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I dont tend to do this kind of question, but there you go hehe.


What i get is kind of my situation this year, and the possibilities that i encountered:

32.1:

Line 1: ‘Deep into lasting. Constancy, pitfall. No direction bears fruit.’ If you plunge deeply and precipitately into something that lasts, it will not be so easy to get out. At this stage, you have plenty of vigorous energy ready to create a strong, lasting pattern. Yet much as you might like to have things settled, and however persuasive the solution may sound, this is not the moment to commit yourself. If you press on without reflection, you’ll be in trouble: diving headlong into a deep hole, unable to plan your way out of it, and facing a real struggle to escape or to make any progress.


This year i kinda got a lot of "proposal" from girls, but some were in a relationship already, and other we dont click, thats why i got confused mostly, since suddenly i was in the spotlight but since im kinda shy and being promiscuosis is not my thing (not that i see it as something wrong to be honest, but i dont feel that i flow that way). I guess that the I ching is saying that, and thats why the 55, abundance of possibilities.

Also, reading 55.1 says:

Line 1: ‘Meeting your partner and lord, Though for ten days, no mistake. Going on brings honour.’ You encounter your match and counterpart, someone you can join with in alliance. Such an alliance is not meant to be a lifelong partnership; it is important not to presume on its strength and overstep its bounds. This doesn’t make the meeting insignificant, or a waste; it is important – and also has a natural time limit. (‘Ten days’ stands for any finite span of time.) Afterwards, you take whatever you received and learned from the encounter, and move on.

Kinda obvious i think, that i will met womans that are my match and counterpart, but not for a lifelong partnership, maybe friends of this moment, or counterparts that teach me something about it. Also the couple of woman i dated but those didnt last.


32.2:

Line 2: ‘Regrets vanish.’ Those regrets were for paths not taken, and most especially for ideals left behind. They’re part of the journey, and they vanish because you move on: now, instead of dwelling in nostalgic comparisons, you are engrossed in immediate, practical details. Your purpose suffuses daily life; it’s no longer experienced as a pure ideal, shining on the horizon of some grand vista, but in the next small step on the road.


That the regret vanishes from giving those things away. Because it wasnt the time and the right people. Also maybe a hint with the first line, to not rush into things, to see it how they flow and be calm with that. That if something works, it will work and its not going to be a burden. That if i rush into something just because i want a partner i might end up in something that i dont want, and the things you left pass by, are not going to be things to regret if you stay true to yourself and flow with the moment not forcing things.


55.2:

Line 2: Feng is screened off. At midday, seeing the Dipper. Going on gains doubts and anxieties. With truth and confidence coming to expression, Good fortune.’ The eclipse begins, and you are cut off from the light. It is dark when the day should be brightest; you can’t see where you are. Of course you are fearful and uncertain, and it is very hard to act decisively. But you can orientate yourself by the bright stars of the Dipper. Although you don’t see and understand what’s happening in the normal way, you can see which way to go. You need only trust your insight and act on it, like Wu, empowered to decide by the Mandate.


Also think that it talks about the situation, that this multiple encounters, that i dated some, met anothers girls that were kinda into me, but it wasnt the partners for me, while the regret vanished, let me confused about if im doing something wrong, im being too picky or what. That while all is very confusing, i can keep being true to myself, since life already is showing me why those werent going to work.


What do you think?


And sorry for my english, hope is understandable.
 
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diamanda

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Hi arbole,

First I'd like to say that there's not much point in reading lines 55.1 and 55.2. If anything, those lines show you what your answer is not.

I think that 32.1.2 > 55 is very promising.

32 with two changing lines - the situation you're in now (alone) will not continue.
32.1 - don't expect a deep connection too soon, it would bring misfortune
32.2 - and you won't regret it
55 - many opportunities

So similarly to your interpretation, it may not happen very soon, and don't expect too much from the very start. You won't regret being patient - lots of opportunities, and abundance (perhaps in a relationship) will be coming your way.
 

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