32.2>55 Urgent please

[scorpioontherun]

34.2>55 Urgent please

The question was "what do i need to know about the possibilities that X will find out I will not sleep at home saturday?"

So backgroung: I have divorced, my husband is harassing me most of all when I have the children with me. Saturday night they (the children who are in my care this week)have both been invited to friends for a sleepover .. So what's the problem? The problem is that he will want proof I'm at home and not leaving the children to somebody to go for the week end. The thing is that this time, since they were invited I would love to go somewhere (in a spa) to pamper myself a little bit with a friend. And I sincerely feel I'm am entitled to (a very hard divorce and 3 burglaries at home, 7 kilos lost ... all of that in the month of november) and in desperate need to. But I'm scared that he'll find out he will harrass me again

So 34.2-55 Tells me he WILL find out, so I'm not going. Other thoughts?
Thank you for your help
Scorpio in distress

 

[my_key]

Hi Scorpio

The question was "what do i need to know about the possibilities that X will find out I will not sleep at home saturday?"

A complicated situation indeed. It seems a complicated question as well. Very busy, which perhaps reflects how you are feeling right now. You have asked what do you need to know about the possibilities of him finding out - so i'm not so sure it says he will find out.

The question is more about what do you need to know...........

Hex 34 can about how we feel about ourselves. Line two is about how we walk on the earth - how we strut our stuff. How we walk rather than how other people walk if you like and Wilhem says " Perseverance brings good fortune."

Maybe you can read 34.2>55 as something like
if you carry on in the same way as you have been going and stick at it. Overcome the frustrations the obstacles that come your way then life will become rosier. Focus on what you want from life and not what life throws at you.

Then again it might be nothing like that at all and your interpretation was the right one for you.

Mike

 

[scorpioontherun]

Thank you for replying mykey
so to make things clearer: what can i expect if i tell X about the sleepover openly now?
56.3.4.6 to 2
Loose the cattle: first laugh then cry ... not a good idea it seems
what can i expect from X if i manage my son sleepover as i thought aka secret untill the last minute and like if it was a suprise?
14.2.3.6 to 51 ... it seems a better idea.
What do you think?

 

[sooo]

The question was "what do i need to know about the possibilities that X will find out I will not sleep at home saturday?"

So 34.2-55 Tells me he WILL find out, so I'm not going. Other thoughts?

I agree with your conclusion and support your decision. 34.2 "persistence is promising" is not automatically a positive omen. It and 55 can be double edged swords.

I know you didn't ask for legal advice, but 55 also deals with the punitive/protective system. Things like custody agreements, restraining orders, etc, may be involved, which as Mike's said, gets complicated. But, if you're that worried over your children's and your safety, I would read at least part of 55 as meaning enforcing legal protective prosecution of your ex's obvious misuse and abuse of power.

 

[scorpioontherun]

should i do as i planned concerning my son sleepover will X find out i'm not sleeping at home as well?
61.3.6-5
?????
And eventually the real question
Should I go to .. in connection with x possible reaction
56 UNCHANGING

Sorry for the multiple questions and answer ... I'm really try to find the best solution for myself and the children (that get harrassed as well). And sooo, I've already asked my lawyer to send an official letter to him menacing to take him to court should he continue.

 

[elias]

56 follow upon the advice others offered here. Static, it has has several complimentary meanings. 1 -- You're passing through a strange situation. On the one hand, you do not have the protections and support network that you would enjoy were you in a more stable environment. 2 -- You also have more freedoms, not being bound by those restrictions that come from that same stable environment. 3 -- You will soon exhaust your energies if you allow things to stagnate, if you (mentally, if not physically) take up residence in this situation, which seems to be of allowing your ex to control you through threats and manipulations.

Simply from a legal-ethical perspective, it is essential that you not be caught in a lie about your children's where-abouts. If there is a legal necessity that you be "at home" or inform your ex about activities when the children are in your custody, then do so. That takes away his lever. If he takes it upon himself to start checking up on you or children, then you then have a better standing for legal action, depending on the jurisdiction and prevailing local laws.

 

[scorpioontherun]

To follow up, I went. I did tell him about my daughter but not about my son. He did not discover I was away and I (and my children for that matter) had a wonderful wonderful time. I think in retrospective that the first reading was a good omen and that 56 was also "a determination about wandering- traveling - is auspicious". The legal obligation - I checked with my lawyer before going - was jsut that I did not leave the country, which I did not do. So legally I'm ipeccable .. Overcome the obstruction.
Thanks for all your kind support and insight