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Hello again senior members
I asked the IC the following string of questions but am still confused as to what the answers mean. Maybe by following the succession someone can weave a story for me??
What is up with K and T i.e. why won't K talk to me or anyone else?
I got 7.2 > 2
Why won't K talk to me or be friendly?
I got 61 unchanging
(?? does this mean he's trusting his instinct or that he sees me as having a sincere open heart? OR is the IC telling me I should trust my instinct i.e. that he doesn't want to upset T)
Is he avoiding me because he doesn't want to upset T?
I got 21
What is he trying to bite through?
I got 10.6 > 58
So I asked again....Why won't Kurt talk to me or be friendly?
I got 37.4.5 > 30 (which doesn't make sense because it talks about being helpful and looking out for others and being like a genuine father figure??)
Then I thought I'd get straight to the point and ask.....What does K feel for me?
I got 58.2 > 17 (which I took to mean he would like to have a true exchange with me??)
So I asked....Then why isn't he approaching me or talking to me?
I got 33.1.4.5 > 22 (which totally confused me!! especially since it's about totally retreating but doesn't say why except for the 22, which I can't relate to this situation)
Sorry there are so many questions but hopefully the trail creates a clear picture for one of you to clarify
By the way, I like K but I am not interested in him as anything more than a friend.....
thanks as always
sofia
Unlike Trojan, my experience is that the Yi does answer questions we ask about others. It's not all and only about us.
Once, years ago, I got upset about someone ignoring me (or so I thought). I asked the Yi why I was being ignored. It told me he was sick. A couple of weeks later, he wrote to tell me he had been sick and out of circulation completely. I never doubted the Yi's ability to tell me about others, from their perspective, after that.
That said - I do think there were a lot of assumptions in the original post that are not necessarily suggested by the answers that the Yi gave. In my answer, I gave what I thought was a coherent story based on the hexagrams, trying to see them from K's perspective. Not being in his head, I am only going on my feel for the hexagrams and my (sometimes faulty!) knowledge of human nature. Personally I would only have drawn one, perhaps two hexagrams for this situation: 1) how is K influenced by this woman in his behaviour towards others?; 2) (follows on from that answer) -in view of that, how should I act towards K?
There's no issue on my part whether he's not talking to me for a specific reason (like not wanting to upset T) or whether he simply doesn't want to talk to me as you've suggested with 33 > 22. I just wanted to know either way so I could know for myself whether to give up on the banter or friendliness.
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Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).