33.4.6>39 and my response to it, 4.2>23 or 23.6>2

[Icecoldkitkat]

Hello! I'd like to ask for some help with interpreting 33.4.6.>39 and picking my response to it. It does not seem positive, don't have to be sad about it! This is a tangled up situation I feel I have caused by my ignorance. It's about someone I was spending time with... 'What does he believe is between us?' 33.4.6>39 - I have removed myself (literally I took a job away for a month to give it a break). I think this means that he feels stuck because of my actions and is not sure what to do. I think I have two options. To either keep quiet and see if he contacts me. Although if he believes it is me who is creating obstructions between us, it is not fair to wait for him to talk first. Now I asked'If I stay quiet, what it'll bring?' 4.2>23 Which seems like a real end. I also asked, as I feel that I'd really like to talk to him, just so he know I care - 'If I proceed checking in with him with kindness, how is this going to affect what's between us'? 23.6>2 - This seems like there could be an important change on a way if I do take to this, what do you think?Please give your experience, opinion. I just want both of us to be happy together or not.

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

I'm still talking to this person... I'd really appreciate anyone's input because I'm sort of hanging, don't want to get into something that the prediction is suggesting that is wrong or create more complications. Thanks

 

[Trojina]

I don't see how any body can answer this and if they did they'd be guessing

. 'What does he believe is between us?' 33.4.6>39 -

How would we know from that what he believes ? Surely to know what he believes you would need to ask him. Have you read the relationship sticky here ? I will post a link to it https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...42-Blog-post-Advice-for-relationship-readings


Ask from your own point of view otherwise you are lost. I for one am not prepared to play guessing games about what someone I never met is thinking.

Would you actually believe someone on the internet who claimed to know what he believes about your relationship ? Don't you think he's knows better than anyone else what he believes ?

 

[Trojina]

Why don't you just contact him and if he is still evasive and leaving you hanging after that then you'll know this is going nowhere.

There's no I Ching predictions needed in this scenario. You want to know how to play it with him, we could spend hours on that and get nowhere. Either he is interested or he isn't. The only way you are going to know what he wants is by his behaviour and what he says.


So go by his behaviour and what he says and if still unsure ask him to clarify.

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

Ohhh okay! That's interesting. I thought I could cast on whether there could be something to work towards seeing the 2 casts I've done. We ate in contact and saw each other just before I went away. I know he is interested but something is holding us back. There's a lot of attraction and we're both very sensitive and possibly huge commitment phobes. I know that if we got together it'd work cause we spent so much time together and got on great. We were very busy at that period so we kinda put a stop on it from both sides but keep getting in touch and the attractions is too much. I hoped to have a help with deciding if to stay in touch while I'm away or not. Thanks for an input. I'll cast from my perspective once I'm ready. Thanks for the link