I was friends with a group of 3 siblings I've known for some time. They're all a few years younger than I. There seemed to be some vibe compatibility between us. The main difference is that I'm quite more conservative and intellectually oriented. They came out of a few years of disorders in...

Hi everyone. I'm new to Clarity and this is my first post ever here. I've only been using the iChing for the last few weeks ever since my partner of the last (almost) six years left me a month ago- rather unexpectedly and in a very abrupt manner. It's left me devastated and since he came to...

I am new to the community and to the I Ching, and I would appreciate any insight into my reading. I asked "what would happen if I told x how I feel?" and received hexagram 14 ("Great Possession") with one changing line at 5, turning to hexagram 1 ("Creative Force"). I interpret this as a...

This thread has been posted already but not with this perspective, I think. Common situation, single girl meets guy and hit it off. After a couple of meetings girl wonders where is it going but doesn’t dare to ask openly. So I Ching! Are we going to start something serious? Response: 51...

Hi there, This will be a rather lengthy post. My readings are as follows: 1. What should I know when I do make a choice to leave her? Hexagram 26.2- 222. What should I know when I make a choice to stay in this relationship? Hexagram 18.2.4.6- 623. How to improve this relationship? Hexagram 55.3-...

Hi. Just trying to make peace with someone and setlle for a defined relationship eg friends. Our history is turbulent and it is clear that we like each other and like spending time but somehow we clash when we try to be a couple. I was wondering if he was ever actually in love with me (that's...

Hello, this is my first time posting here! The person I felt in my heart to be the love of my life is such a difficult commitment phobic that I've started losing faith. He loves me, deeply, I know that, but he seems to not see it (like in the movies). We met about 3 years ago on tinder, when he...

Hello! I'd like to ask for some help with interpreting 33.4.6.>39 and picking my response to it. It does not seem positive, don't have to be sad about it...

Hi All!I'm new to the forum and would like your insight on hexagram 31.1 > 49. Not sure if I'm asking the right question or not, but I asked the IC if my ex is seeing someone else right now. Here's the backstory:About 6 months ago I met a man 11 years older than me and we just immediately...

Hello Hilary and Clarity Community, thank you for welcoming new members. I apologize for no paragraphs; my original text contains them and I tried to put them in but they won't appear. I am an American of part-Chinese descent, so I grew up familiar with the Yi, and use it. I also use Mah...

Hello, I asked yi- "What is his intention for me?" and Received Hexagram 1- The Creative with changing lines 2 and 4 Changing to 37- The Family. I then asked yi- "What is the best way to deal with X?" and received hexagram 1- the creative with changing lines 2 and 4 changing to 37, again! I...

Hello all,I have asked yi about a guy that I was dating- whom I cut contact with about 6 months ago, due to lack of taking a next step to commitment, on his end. I am a psychic dreamer. Recently, I have been having many synchronicities and dreams about this individual. I am not quite sure...

I dated this girl and we broke up a month ago. It was a very emotional relationship and it really didn't last long because she said she got scared. I still see her around sometimes and I still have feelings so I asked Yi what her feelings are for me ? And I got 64.2.3.4.6, and 15 have no idea...

Hello, What are the rules when it comes to repeating the same question/s about the same person- at different periods of time in the relationship?My initial understanding of the I Ching was that you will not receive an accurate reading if you ask the same question about the same situation/...

I have been dating someone, a 37 year old Capricorn male, and I am a 33 year old Virgo female. On our first date we met up for breakfast, but ended up hanging out together for the next 24 hours! We discussed past relationships, family, what we want in the future, etc...details regarding things...

So...I feel I need to preface this reading with the story...if you are interested in only the hexagrams, please skip below!!!! I have been dating someone, a 37 year old Capricorn male, and I am a 33 year old Virgo. On our first date we met up for breakfast, but ended up hanging out together...

Ok, so I asked "What action can I take to better attract a loving, committed romantic relationship into my life?" I received hexagram 48.1.5 I then asked "What has caused me to remain single for these last five years?" And laughed a bit because I got hexagram 48 again, this time with changes...

Reading 48.5 to 46 Question: comment on stepping away from a relationship before becoming physical, due to my fear of his potential to cheat, based on two dreams I had? Very nice man, very slow to get too involved physically... So the Well, line 5, clear water, does this mean not to fear?

How deal w a man who has women friends (5) whom he writes and phones---& my needs? Writes to friends, Beatrice twice a week,talks to Anna an hour regularly on phone, comment on his attention being so scattered and how do I deal w that and needing to be #1 priority in his life? Your reading...

Hello all, I'm new to i ching. Recently started seeing a man i feel a deep connection with. The other day i got vulnerable was asking him a lot of questions (about last relationship, what he's looking for) told him some of my fears of intimacy. So i asked I Ching "What can you tell me about my...