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Hi everyone,
I've been back and forthing about this issue for some time now and asked the IChing a final time before embarking on this holiday with my girlfriend. Its a bit complicated but bear with..
Back in April, my girlfriend bought me tickets to go to Barcelona (in July/August) with her as a gift for my birthday. I was moved by the gesture as she doesn't earn much, but in a time of financial/job uncertainty, I was also a bit apprehensive about being able to come up with the funds by then. Since then, I've been earning more, things are on the mend but not out the woods yet..Unfortunately, he holiday has fallen at a time where I've had to move out and had to attend to so many expenses, many of which unforeseen, and things haven't been going so smoothly, which has made it difficult for me to go without indebting myself further.
Following this, The problem was also that she also extended this holiday by changing plans slightly by going to another destination first and then going to Barcelona (At first it seemed it would cost us much due to contacts she has, but expenses have amounted since). She took care of the tickets but the holiday has doubled and now that we are close to the departure date, I can only go if I borrow money from her and a member of her family who has organised the first part of the trip. With all my other commitments, this holiday will cost me a lot. And borrowing from her and her sister isn't the best situation to be in despite her assurances.
We argued about this twice, and it transpired that she really needs me to be there for the first part of the holiday for support as she will be receiving her exams results that she's been working so hard for and she's worried if they go bad, she won't have me to help her through it. On the other hand, I suggested to come for the second half (Barcelona) which will give me more time to earn a bit more and not be in so much debt (although I will still reimburse eventually for the wasted tickets). So seeing how she feels strongly about me being there, and having talked through the finances etc, I've decided to go (we leave on Wednesday!).
We've had a difficult relationship and external stressors to deal with. We were both looking forward to this, but the timing isn't great. She says, the love and support is there to make it happen, and finances can be sorted without too much pressure later. But a bit worried how this will affect me further down the line.
Of course, this is the most simplified summary I can give of the situation (believe it or not haha!). But would really appreciate any input to understand the reading further.
I ask the Yi to "Please advise me on the upcoming holiday" and received 36.2.4 > 34
Thank you all in advance!!
I've been back and forthing about this issue for some time now and asked the IChing a final time before embarking on this holiday with my girlfriend. Its a bit complicated but bear with..
Back in April, my girlfriend bought me tickets to go to Barcelona (in July/August) with her as a gift for my birthday. I was moved by the gesture as she doesn't earn much, but in a time of financial/job uncertainty, I was also a bit apprehensive about being able to come up with the funds by then. Since then, I've been earning more, things are on the mend but not out the woods yet..Unfortunately, he holiday has fallen at a time where I've had to move out and had to attend to so many expenses, many of which unforeseen, and things haven't been going so smoothly, which has made it difficult for me to go without indebting myself further.
Following this, The problem was also that she also extended this holiday by changing plans slightly by going to another destination first and then going to Barcelona (At first it seemed it would cost us much due to contacts she has, but expenses have amounted since). She took care of the tickets but the holiday has doubled and now that we are close to the departure date, I can only go if I borrow money from her and a member of her family who has organised the first part of the trip. With all my other commitments, this holiday will cost me a lot. And borrowing from her and her sister isn't the best situation to be in despite her assurances.
We argued about this twice, and it transpired that she really needs me to be there for the first part of the holiday for support as she will be receiving her exams results that she's been working so hard for and she's worried if they go bad, she won't have me to help her through it. On the other hand, I suggested to come for the second half (Barcelona) which will give me more time to earn a bit more and not be in so much debt (although I will still reimburse eventually for the wasted tickets). So seeing how she feels strongly about me being there, and having talked through the finances etc, I've decided to go (we leave on Wednesday!).
We've had a difficult relationship and external stressors to deal with. We were both looking forward to this, but the timing isn't great. She says, the love and support is there to make it happen, and finances can be sorted without too much pressure later. But a bit worried how this will affect me further down the line.
Of course, this is the most simplified summary I can give of the situation (believe it or not haha!). But would really appreciate any input to understand the reading further.
I ask the Yi to "Please advise me on the upcoming holiday" and received 36.2.4 > 34
Thank you all in advance!!