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springflower

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I made a question today about what is going to happen between me and my ex fiance this month May. I ching answered: 36.4 36.6 -> 30

Wounds, everything black to clarity... or Brightness entering earth center to Doubled brightness symbolizes Fire and care of the cow...

Do I have to hope for a change?
 
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butterfly spider

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Spring flower - 36 as a hexagram often feels like a reexamination of our life - and 36.4 especially makes us reexamine our intentions and thoughts. Sometimes 36.6 makes us look at our intentions - often they can be unrealistic.

I am not saying that you will not get back with your fiancée but you need to consider how realistic - or indeed auspicious it will be to think on these lines.

The resulting hexagram 30 for me always feels as if things will be one clear - things will become obvious soon
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Hi Springflower,
I would interpret it, that you will gain more understanding of your situation during this month of May. You are going from darkness to clarity. Hope things turn out well for you.
Best wishes
 
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springflower

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Dear Butterfly Spider and Gnichi,

Thank you both for your asnwers.
36 I guess shows how I feel or our situation is without any hope.. 36.4 I have lost any hope for us. No hope for improvement so I left the scene before things get worse. 36.6 only darkness. I feel there is nothing to do anymore. Just the end. no light. And then 30.. clarity.. light... But perhaps I will see clearly that our relationship is over..
I will let you know soon...
 
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springflower

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Finally,

I would like to update.. It seems that nothing changed this month. Our situation is worse. I sent him some messages 2 days ago and I asked him to let me know if our relationship is ended for him. He hasn't answered me.

I asked one more question and I need your interpretation please. Here is my interpretation:
When will we be together?
24.1 24.6 > 23
I think the answer is clear. The return is impossible our relationship is destroyed entirely. No hope for reunion.
 
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Thank you for updating. Maybe your ex-fiance will clarify his intentions,and feelings, now that you asked. Or the two of you can talk.
 
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Vissino

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I am so sorry. I agree with your interpretation springflower. Seems the situation is hopeless. Hope there is someone with different opinion.
 
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mirian

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Hi springflower,

I am ever so sorry to say that because I understand how painful and heartbreaking this all is, but I am afraid this relationship has reached a point of no return. But however hard this is, your readings also carry a positive message. The darkest point has been reached (36. 6) and from now on your life can only start moving towards a better direction. Hex 23 is there to strip the old, to remove things that have no place in your life anymore, so this man and this relationship are going to go for good.

My opinion is that it is time for you start thinking about yourself, the life you want from now on and the changes to make you happy.
 
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springflower

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Yes, it is very painful and heartbreaking.
I can't believe it that we will be separated no matter what. We were 7 years together and this hurts me a lot but this is life. He hasn't answered me. He should give me an explanation but I think he doesn't want to hurt me more. I believe that there is an other woman. It could make sense.
I asked yi Is he interested for an other woman?
60.1 60.6 >59
I searched some threads but I am not sure what is the answer. Limitation -> dispersion..
Is that means that after limitation and loneliness he will find an other woman? or he has put limits and he doesn't want any relationship?

I ching seems so difficult to me.
 
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Springflower,
I would read 60.1.6 to 59 as saying that the relationship is dissolving, and changing (59),
while 60.1 and 60.6 (combined) may say
60.1: it is good to stay at home for a while
60.6: it is good to regulate your conduct if necessary
These are comments about wise regulation.
The Yi may be offering you advice, rather than giving you private information about your ex-fiance.
 
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springflower

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1st of June and nothing changed. I feel that our reunion is impossible. Also, I believe inside me he is interested for another woman.. I have a very close relationship with his mother. She loves me as her daughter. We almost talk every day. She told me that there is no other woman and she believes there is hope to be together.
I asked for clarification.

Have I understood correctly that there is another woman in his life?
16.2 16.4 16.5 16.6> 59
Illusions > dispersion. Do I have illusions?
 
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mirian

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The I Ching is not saying there is or there isn't another woman because this is not relevant. What the reading is saying is that you need to overcome illusions and self deception in order to understand the situation. For a start, as much as his mother loves you she cannot speak on behalf of her son. So this is the sort of thing that 16.2.4.5.6 > 59 is addressing. Your perception of reality is clouded, in a nutshell that's the message.
 
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springflower

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You are right, she cannot talk on behalf of her son. They have a close relationship too. "I know my child" this is what she says to me.
I am almost sure that there is another woman and there is no hope for us.
I asked what is he hidding from me? Hex 53... I think he is at the beginning of making a new relationship.
 
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Vissino

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Hi springflower.
I received the same answer today as yours.
53 makes me think that there is something that he is hidding from you and is relating with another woman indeed.
You need time to move forward. It's not so easy after a 7years relationship. Keep the good moments and let time heal your wounds.

My best wishes.
 

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Hi Springflower...

I am sorry to read you had to go through that. If you don't mind me asking...
How did this play out?
 

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