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I had a relationship with a man, but I didn't trust him completely. He did nothing to lose my trust, it's only my fault, I always think that men could cheat on me, because I had some bad experiences in the past. I was very suspicious. So ten days ago, after an argument about nothing, I understood that I couldn't continue in this way, I texted him that it was better to stay some days without calls and messages. After some days I was yet in a bad mood and I wrote to him, that was better to stop the relationship. I wrote, because I couldn't speak, it was like something crushing my heart. He answered that he agreed with me. I wrote to him again, to apologize for my behavior, but he answered that was over. I can't accept it, I understand he couldn't bear the brunt of my problems.

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"what is the potential?" 37.2.4>1 both lines speak of the woman. 37.2 I have to accept his decision and to find in myself what I need. I don't know how to read line 4.
"What can I do to get his trust back?" 55uc Abundance. I don't know, I read like that I cannot have any more
 

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The title of 55 as "Abundance" is deliberately ironic (like several in the Yi). You can only take so much, then you need to make narrower choices and more executive decisions.
 

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I had a relationship with a man, but I didn't trust him completely. He did nothing to lose my trust, it's only my fault, I always think that men could cheat on me, because I had some bad experiences in the past. I was very suspicious. So ten days ago, after an argument about nothing, I understood that I couldn't continue in this way, I texted him that it was better to stay some days without calls and messages. After some days I was yet in a bad mood and I wrote to him, that was better to stop the relationship. I wrote, because I couldn't speak, it was like something crushing my heart. He answered that he agreed with me. I wrote to him again, to apologize for my behavior, but he answered that was over. I can't accept it, I understand he couldn't bear the brunt of my problems.

I asked:
"what is the potential?" 37.2.4>1 both lines speak of the woman. 37.2 I have to accept his decision and to find in myself what I need. I don't know how to read line 4.
"What can I do to get his trust back?" 55uc Abundance. I don't know, I read like that I cannot have any more
I think it possibly is telling you to heal your problem about trust, and start over. HOWEVER it may also be telling you that if you tend to things inside and let him alone for awhile (37.2), then you may win him back (37.4).
 

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what is the potential? 37.2.4 > 1
This guy is married. So your instict to not trust him is correct.
 

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what is the potential? 37.2.4 > 1
This guy is married. So your instict to not trust him is correct.
How do you know he’s married? If from the hexagram lines, aren’t the messages symbolic?
 

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Thank you all for your help!
I don't give up, so I have decided to write him a short letter. I think it's a soft way to communicate, so I can explain better than with a text message and it's way not to make him feel obliged to answer me.
He's separated from he's wife, but not divorced.
I asked:"What happens if I write him this letter?" 10.4>61
I think that The Yi is telling me it's a good idea.
 

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Thank you all for your help!
I don't give up, so I have decided to write him a short letter. I think it's a soft way to communicate, so I can explain better than with a text message and it's way not to make him feel obliged to answer me.
He's separated from he's wife, but not divorced.
I asked:"What happens if I write him this letter?" 10.4>61
I think that The Yi is telling me it's a good idea.
I agree. You’re going into a scary situation, but things should go well. Good luck. Give us an update.
 

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Well the lines speak of a wife in the house (37.2), and a rich household (37.4). Obviously this is not about the querent, so this is how I came to the conclusion he's married. Because of the lines, I don't believe that he's even separated.
 

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