37.4 > 9 What am I being told?

[em ching]

Hello,

A few months ago, I saw someone I had had a brief flirtation with at my old work-place, with another girl, also from the old work place. They looked to be in a couple. I was leaving the area on the day I saw them, didn't feel hurt or anything, but it was by chance that I saw them and I wondered why (there was a time I thought something would happen with us but at the time he had a girlfriend who also worked at the same place - seems he was doing the rounds!)

I asked what I was supposed to learn from seeing them.
I received 37.4 > 9 which I took to mean that he's found someone that makes him happy - would you agree? Was the Yi saying I was not capable of being that person for him? (Perhaps because I'm not stable myself and so don't 'increase' people so well?)

I then asked a similar question recently, about whether someone I keep thinking about (more fool me) is emotionally involved with another.
I received 37.4> 9
Does that scream yes!!??

Would really appreciate what you think the Yi has been drawing my attention to, with these two readings given to a similar sort of Q.

Thanks so much for your thoughts
:bows:

 

[em ching]

Mistake - should be 37.4 > 13.
Could that be saying these people have found strength in a group or are comforted by this individual? That they belong?

 

[marien]

Would really appreciate what you think the Yi has been drawing my attention to, with these two readings given to a similar sort of Q.

I think Yi is trying to say that the 37.4 woman is you. You're asking about 2 different situations, yes? It's often difficult to get a clear reading on someone else's relationship, and so instead Yi's saying that you're worthy, regardless of what's happening with other people. I've gotten this line before at times when I felt insecure-- it's always a blessing. You've got to believe you're a 37.4 before someone else will

And with the guy's involvement with another, so be it. Sometimes people do break up. If not, there's someone down the line who'd be better for you.

 

[em ching]

Thanks very much Marien.
I know it shows yucky jealousy to ask those types of questions, about other people's relationships etc. Sometimes the Yi seems to accurately reply though - making me feel that it is all knowing, psychic, can transcend space and time and give the truth even when there is no way of you consciously knowing - but then it could be that the Yi is always limited to just illuminating the inquirer's position, or at least trying to change their way of thinking about themselves perhaps in relation to the person they're asking about.
It's a tricky one and I'm not sure of the answer...
Goes to the whole Q of whether the Yi is being used by your inner or higher self to communicate with your conscious self or ego, or whether it is channelling a separate, guiding entity in itself... Hmmm..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts there!