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An online friend has been quiet for several days even though he had said he would have more time to talk to me during last week. It happens from time to time, so some time ago I told him I could understand a lull or two but not repeated instances of such an inconsiderate behaviour. He said he wouldn't do that again and, well, he did. I know that men do that often, without even realizing it, but I think I cannot tolerate it because 1.) it'll get worse and 2.) it ruins my own schedule.
So I was furious at first, and when I asked Yi "Why X isn't writing" I got 6.5 to 64, which I interpreted as I Ching telling me to calm down and refrain from deciding about anything while I'm angry.
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free_I_Ching_reading/reading.php?lines=878797
I waited several days and asked "How should I behave towards X in reference to this situation?" I got 37.1.3.5 to 23.
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free_I_Ching_reading/reading.php?lines=989897
And today I asked again "Why he's not writing?" and got 9 unchanging, which I interpreted as him being busy or perhaps spending the time on some kind of work on self-improvement.
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/free_I_Ching_reading/reading.php?lines=777877
I'd love to hear your insights on this readings. What is Yi telling me to do? Does the family hex mean I must make strict rules (or observe the rules I made earlier, which would mean ending the communication) or that I should be understanding like in a family?
I asked I Ching additional questions about what would happen depending on a scenario. Could you advise me which one I should choose?
1. What if I write to him first and tell him I feel sad that he's been quiet for so long? 16.5.6 to 12
Or what if I wait till he writes to me and then I tell him ...
2. ... I have no time for him right now. 29 unchanging
3. ... I feel sad he's been quiet again but I understand that and I'm OK with it. 18 unchanging
4. ... I feel sad he's been quiet again and I don't know what to say or do about it. 41.1.2.6 to 29
5. ... that he went too far and that we shouldn't continue this correspondence. 17.2 to 58
Thank you in advance!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).