38:2,3 to 30 about a love affair

[Telmina]

I asked the Yi «Will it be more between us?» and received 38:2,3 to 30 as the answer.

The bakground for the question is a situation I am in with a friend I have had for 25 years, that I altso have been in love with. Now it is on the table that I probably have deeper feelings for him than he has for me, and I wonder if this might bring our relation to a closure.

i would appreciate any thoughts on this reading from you lovely people in here.
Kind Regards,
Telmina

 

[Vaseline]

I asked the Yi «Will it be more between us?» and received 38:2,3 to 30 as the answer.

The bakground for the question is a situation I am in with a friend I have had for 25 years, that I altso have been in love with. Now it is on the table that I probably have deeper feelings for him than he has for me, and I wonder if this might bring our relation to a closure.

i would appreciate any thoughts on this reading from you lovely people in here.
Kind Regards,
Telmina

38.2 Describes the informal relationship in which this could mean meeting in a secret passageway. Is this person long distance or is the communication between you hidden from others?

38.3 describes someone being to afraid to go down a certain route because of possible life experiences or observations holding them back? This seems to describe your fear. It could mean there are a lot of difficulties in having anything more in the love department but in the end there is good fortune.

30 describes luminosity and a form a mutual support. ...

I think the lines say everything seems really confined with your feelings and about a private or distant meeting with him. You're communicating with him while holding a lot of feelings in and keeping it a secret and you're doing it through fear of past experiences or probably he himself may be intimidated. But the background seems to show that there is some sort of mutualism between you both so it may be both. It really looks like there is indeed a form of a happy ending and it could be mutual feelings between you both even though there is an aura of oppressing feelings. I don't see it as your relations suddenly stopping, but at least a mutual support through the difficult times and even your feelings.

(Edit), he at least will still remain your friend in the end

 

[wanlihonghu]

the 38 hexgrame is kui（睽）、Opposition.

The upper hexagram is Fire, the characteristic of fire is upward burning, the lower hexagram is Tui, and the characteristic of Tui is downward penetration. Such a combination becomes the opposite of upper and lower, so the English name corresponding to this hexagram is opposite.

The meaning of the hexagram of Kui includes the meaning of separation of people's hearts.

This man is actually family-centered. In this relationship between you and him, the damage to you is serious, and the final result is not what you hoped. Therefore, the hexagram has told you that you are currently and His relationship was the opposite, and the end result was separation.

I hope you can face up to life and don't let yourself fall into bad things again