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Tim K

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41.2 → 27 (Nourishment), Wilhelm:
Perseverance furthers.
To undertake something brings misfortune.
Without decreasing oneself, one is able to bring increase to others.


Yes he will, but in small way. If you are hoping to gain something substantial - it won't happen.
 

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To tell you the truth I don't even know what to ask for We are together for some 20 years but not married and if something happens to him I have a small income, not enough to live from He has 2 sons, I tought to ask him or they can look after me (there is enough financially, but I know when it comes to money everybody will think for himself and there will be enough people who are waiting to get their hands in) In fact I hate asking...I probably never will...but it's burning me up to live in this insecurity...and if I become a widow I don't want to be depended on anyone
 

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I think it will be easier to make this request than you think. In 41.2 one imagines one must make larger sacrifices when in reality one need not put so much effort in. Make your request to him plain and simple and you may be surprised how easy it is.

I think you are wise to think ahead. Bereavement is bad enough without having financial struggles too. If he cares for you he will also care what happens to you if he should die. Sometimes people don't want to think about this but it is better to IMO.
 

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Well I did ask the IC or he will write a cod stating that his sons have to look after me if he is not there anymore and got 22 U.C. Grace

22. Beautifying

Beautifying.
Progressing little.
It is beneficial to have a goal to move to.

Making something beautiful. This makes for only little actual progress, as it isn't about what actually matters. It is a good idea to have a goal for this.

Well this seems also not to be working ?
 

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Thank you so much Trojina !
I didn't see your answer untill I posted a new comment just now (see above)
It is true what you write, he thinks he is immortal but in fact he has many issues and I am living on a vulcano, but are so ashamed to ask...
 

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Hmm, 22, again yes but with a sense that it's not that important for him (or in general for you).
Maybe this issue will be resolved in some other way... Maybe he will transfer some funds to your account for a 'black day' himself.

Or just - don't worry about it too much, just ask gracefully.
"Hon, you know I'm feeling very insecure about my financial position, if you would just add me to the will in case something happens to you. Just a formality nothing else. Love you"
 

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Oh Asteroid you are sweet, but that's exactly it, it's not important because he thinks he's immortal But that is a good question, add me to the will, never thought about that I asked or he wants to give the usufruct (if this is the correct word) from some project and got 40 U.C.
 

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Just to let you know what happened
I asked him finally and he reacted very sweet and understanding, he would do it, it was no problem at all !

However now I have to wait till he has done it, I will let you know Forum
 

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On second thought I asked the IChing

Will he sign this document by the notary so I receive the right of usufruct from his part from company Z, before he leaves the country ?
I got 52.2.3.4 > 64

64 is totally correct "This very often refers to a suitor who's not sure that it's safe to commit himself"

52.2.3.4 ??

You were right Trojina, to make the request it was must easier than I thought, in fact I was surprised...
 

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