41.6 -> 19

[tfoodie]

I have been through a painful divorce recently, and met someone on a blind date today. I think she is an interesting person. So I asked the Oracle

What would the result be if I told X if find her interesting?

and got 41.6 -> 19.

I interpret this as a positive sign, saying my cycle of "Decrease" is over and I should move forward to approach this lady.

Any thoughts? I am a bit scared of getting hurt again, and the " In the eighth month there will be evil" comment on 19 worries me.

Thanks in advance,

TFoodie

 

[icastes]

The period of rest and renewal is now over, and you can move ahead. 19 is an excellent gua for mutual entrusting of expectations. But 19 also says that of love it can be hot and cold, and that you must remain calm and collected throughout. You must handle everything in a yielding and cooperative manner, and then good fortune is yours. If you are arrogant or forceful, you will fail.

 

[Trojina]

I have been through a painful divorce recently, and met someone on a blind date today. I think she is an interesting person. So I asked the Oracle

What would the result be if I told X if find her interesting?

and got 41.6 -> 19.

I interpret this as a positive sign, saying my cycle of "Decrease" is over and I should move forward to approach this lady.

Any thoughts? I am a bit scared of getting hurt again, and the " In the eighth month there will be evil" comment on 19 worries me.

Thanks in advance,

TFoodie

This line says one finds friends and many servants...something like that but does not have a seperate home. I take this as very much saying you are on a stage of your journey, you find the support you need for the journey and it may be an interesting time but it is not time to settle down to things permanently...one is still on the move, things are now being gathered, whether experiences or friends or other resources....so in that sense yes the cycle of decrease has gone about as far as it can go and its a time of gathering momentum again.

In terms of this realtionship I see no reason not to approach her, that you find her interesting seems a very good 41.6 kind of reason but perhaps with an open mind as to what outcome you'd like. You may find she opens up other doors for you...in ways you don't expect.

I think 41.6 is a very interesting time to live through as long as one doesn't want to make things permanent and get everything 'settled' that is why the line says one finds friends but has no home...its not a time to settle for what is but to venture forth into gathering increase...a kind of spring like time (19) As long as one is aware this is a cycle of moving on and gathering all kinds of fresh input for the next phase of life it can be very stimulating

This is also a good line for your worries about being hurt...as you see it isn't a time for deep emotional commitment anyway so no need to get hurt...but it is a time of new and stimulating contacts that can lead you to pastures new...maybe to meet other new people and new things