42. 2 3 4 (1)

[moss elk]

It can be hard to see the forest through the trees,
at least for me and relationship questions where I am involved. I am two months into a relationship that has had some daunting challenges that have been overcome.
I asked, 'could we build a good union/marriage here?'

answer: 42- 2 3 4 (1)

I see it as saying yes, we could.
and that part of me that is ever doubting is clouding my perception.
Does anyone have experience with 42 to 1?

Taking the above answer as an afirmative, I asked a question:
How to create this?
answer 47 unchanging.

 

[Tohpol]

'could we build a good union/marriage here?'

42.1.3.4>1

That looks like a very good set to me. You're blessed. There is something here from which you can both profit. I think overall it shows that you can allow it to work rather than make it work - there's obviously a huge difference. With any authentic relationship there's always a period where each of you will have to shed certain beliefs and inherited "programs" which can be reflected in the other. It's like the old yin-yang dynamic of being weak where she is strong and strong where she is weak. But these are opportunities to outgrow and exorcise the negative aspects of those expressions. Love can be a wild ride initially and then when the chemicals subside, you see the work to be done, which offers mutual growth to a deeper, truer union. But that can be challenging for sure!

Line 2: There is the potential for things to come to fruition in ways you might not be able to see right now. And with that comes a release of new energy or the creativity between you. The tortoise motif in this line is immensely favourable on that score so I'd say stick with it.

Line 3: Again another line that talks about an alliance amid difficulties, but by accentuating the joint approach for a stronger union you can overcome these initial obstacles or unfortunate circumstances. Perhaps both of you will become stronger in yourselves because of it. And that strength can then be disbursed between you. You have what it takes.

Line 4: Seek the middle ground always. No extremes and watch your conditioned responses. Lots of emotional triggers in any relationship isn't there? Especially when we can feel vulnerable to opening up and really trusting the other. I've seldom had this refer to a physical move - although it can, more usually it's a conceptual shift away from the demons of the past, to disentangle from that which holds you back by attaining a new, positive angle on things. Past hurt can always return in unexpected ways. But this line shows that you can change your focus of attention and come from an entirely different perspective. That way you earn trust, perhaps in yourself and from her.

With the background H.1 there might be a lot of power and passion going on! No wonder it's a bit difficult to manage. There'll be ups and downs in some shape or form. Certainly never a dull moment between you. But the creative potential is there - maybe it just needs to be managed carefully.

I've seldom had 42 to indicate all is rosy, to sit back and let lady luck do it all for you as you're only too well aware at this stage. But if you've overcome a lot of obstacles together 42 suggests that this is worth it. There'll always be challenges of course of varying degrees, especially if you're somewhat "electric" opposites, but ultimately the natural harmony is found and you'll see it all from a higher perspective, how it all fits together. It is about "increase" after all, investing more energy into the partnership. The lines suggest that you have something valuable and trustworthy here and you can stay with it and see where it leads you both.

 

[diamanda]

While I don't have personal experience with this particular combination, I've noticed that whenever I get 1 as the resulting hexagram, there's a "fresh/new start of something completely new" - after the lines have been played out. This does not necessarily mean an 'end' of the situation - but for sure an end of the situation as it had been so far. Sometimes it referred to an ending, other times it turned out that the situation had became completely changed and new.

So, in your answer...

could we build a good union/marriage here? 42.2.3.4 > 1
42.2 - a lovely beginning between you
42.3 - the difficulties that you mentioned you overcame, because of good communication
42.4 - now this sounds like the next chapter in the story. You need to keep the good communication going on between you. Now the issue here becomes "moving the capital". This could be literal (= moving to another place) or capital as in money/riches (= moving finances). Perhaps you know what this refers to...? So I believe that if you two manage to solve this last issue, a completely new chapter will start in your lives. Hopefully together!

How to create this?
answer 47 unchanging
By not counting on mere words only. By drying out a lake... a resource? Could this be referring to the moving of the 'capital'? Dry out your bank accounts, and/or move to a dry place? At least I'm hoping that this is what it means here, because obviously it can also have some very negative meanings as well.

Does any of the above ring any bells?

 

[moss elk]

How to create this?
answer 47 unchanging
By not counting on mere words only. By drying out a lake... a resource? Could this be referring to the moving of the 'capital'? Dry out your bank accounts, and/or move to a dry place? At least I'm hoping that this is what it means here, because obviously it can also have some very negative meanings as well.

Does any of the above ring any bells?

well, moving the capitol would be about her or us moving, (she lives in a different town)
which we have talked about this and she says she wants to do. I think the 47 is about how to get through one last major obstacle, and it is about my perseverence and dedication even the the last obstacle is a doozy, and would probably turn many people away from the idea.
She has already made two big changes in her life that were necessary, and these changes are what have given me hope for the relationships future.

 

[erre_kz]

Moss Elk, may I ask you how it played out this cast?

 

[erre_kz]

*the 42.2.3.4> 1 I mean

 

[moss elk]

oh boy,
Thanks for asking.
:hide:

I had put this huge error behind me and out of my mind,
and so forgot to update the thread.
Three years later, I can laugh about it.
Bare with reading this and maybe something useful will come out of it.


The first line or phrase from the reading that makes sense to me in hindsight is from the Image of 42:
When having transgressed, as a rule, makes corrections

42>(1)?There was an intensity between us not unlike plugging a machine that required low voltage into a high voltage line.
Sparks and rumbles and near explosions.
(It wasn't all one sided either: she actually suffered a mini-stroke once from a kiss, no not the good kind.)
Another good image might be of a balloon overfilled near stress point, continuing means: it can only pop.

This 'relationship' was a massive faceplant, and I wouldn't wish her on my enemy. She was very skilled at manipulating people and later saw her do it to multiple people simultaneously.
She was extremely dishonest (she was married (to the mafia) and didnt tell me until after seeing her for six weeks)
Once this came out and things soured between us, she began to talk about how great she was,
she bragged about how this wealthy professional althlete was trying to marry her, she talked about vindictive things she had done in the past (really? are you trying to intimidate me into continuing?),
just awful. I managed to end it peacefully, and can be thankful in retrospect for the experience, because it helped me decide to quit drinking alcohol. (there is the line 3:increase by way of unfortunate events)

I'm glad that it happened as it did.
I am much healthier and happier now,
my life is better in every way.
Three cheers to unimpaired judgement, and balanced temperment.

What about the 47?
This Sucked

 

[erre_kz]

oh boy,
Thanks for asking.
:hide:

Girl here

Wow, thanks for the useful insights. So..blessed in disguise

 

[moss elk]

Girl here

"Oh boy" is an expression with many meanings. None of which have to do with gender. Combine it with the smiley trying to hide behind the couch, and it means. "this is embarrassing, and I'm going to talk about it anyway"
Perhaps you knew that I just didn't get your joke.

Wow, thanks for the useful insights. So..blessed in disguise

Think of mistakes and unfortunate events. Think of a balloon being inflated (42) by the power of Qian (1)
(a balloon cannot contain the power of Qian)

 

[erre_kz]

"Oh boy" is an expression with many meanings. None of which have to do with gender. Combine it with the smiley trying to hide behind the couch, and it means. "this is embarrassing, and I'm going to talk about it anyway"
Perhaps you knew that I just didn't get your joke.

Sorry, English is not my native language, I just misunderstood, I took the expression literally..