45.4 > 8 - Will he come back to me or is it really over?

[ddream]

Yes, it somewhat reassures me. I'm not too hopeful at the moment. I don't feel like I'll ever meet someone like him ever again. All I'm trying to do for now is survive. Thanks for everything, arabella. I'll try to keep that there's a blue sky ahead.

 

[answeredquestions]

Hi ddream,

I am sorry that you are in pain right now. It is okay to feel something, but just know that it is truely better that it is over. You are better for knowing the truth and better for not wasting anymore time and devotion on something that is not growing positively. When someone like yourself, whom seems sensitive to feelings, goes through a situation like this, it is easy to trap these feelings in your heart (both your emotional heart and your physical heart). It is best to slowly let them go over time. Love and hate both dwell in the heart, and we carry this with us perhaps even to other lifetimes. Best to let it go so you don't have to go through things again. In time you will feel better that you are not tangled in this web of confusion and onesidedness. And you can feel lighter and happier in the end. From the sound of things you are a lady who is starting to know more and more about what you want from a relationship, this can be another one of those pointers that tells you things that will, and will not, work for you in the realms of searching for a mate. You can learn from this experience and pick up on various symbols and signs, maybe even warnings when looking back, that can help you for the future. You are also like all of us on this site, building a relationship with the Yi which can help guide you on your way. -AQ

 

[ddream]

Hi ddream,

I am sorry that you are in pain right now. It is okay to feel something, but just know that it is truely better that it is over. You are better for knowing the truth and better for not wasting anymore time and devotion on something that is not growing positively. When someone like yourself, whom seems sensitive to feelings, goes through a situation like this, it is easy to trap these feelings in your heart (both your emotional heart and your physical heart). It is best to slowly let them go over time. Love and hate both dwell in the heart, and we carry this with us perhaps even to other lifetimes. Best to let it go so you don't have to go through things again. In time you will feel better that you are not tangled in this web of confusion and onesidedness. And you can feel lighter and happier in the end. From the sound of things you are a lady who is starting to know more and more about what you want from a relationship, this can be another one of those pointers that tells you things that will, and will not, work for you in the realms of searching for a mate. You can learn from this experience and pick up on various symbols and signs, maybe even warnings when looking back, that can help you for the future. You are also like all of us on this site, building a relationship with the Yi which can help guide you on your way. -AQ

Thanks, answeredquestions. I know I can learn from this experience, but I'm still too hurt to see this as something good at the moment. I'm still wondering what was the point of putting him on my road. He IChing told me x was put on my road because of 25.1.2 > 6 I don't really understand what it means honestly. I think I'm too tired to think straight. If only I could sleep well.

 

[answeredquestions]

Hi,

Actually this reading is saying 'move on' pretty clearly. Yi isn't telling you why he was put on your road but it is telling you to keep walking. 25 is about becoming untangled and univolved. It's advice is to not get caught up. I know this is not easy, but it is sound advice. Free yourself from all negative things that he has placed on the road that are causing you to stop. Don't even get a street sweeper or a bulldozer to clear out the road, just keep on trucking. 25's advice is to act now, with a forward motion, small step by small step, towards purity of the whole thing or you will get stuck in the perpetual motion of it all. Lines 1's advice is to simply 'go'. You are able to move on. Line 2's advice is to not 'work'' on this road. Don't stop and pick up broken peices and question them. 6 is where you are coming from- the feeling of being on a road that you don't know where you are going. You are looking back and looking forward and you feel trapped at what to pay attention to and where to start your footing.

Yi is saying something other than my advice to learn from the situation. Yi is saying just move on. (Does Yi know how hard it is, yes. It will take time though and yi knows that too. I think the advice is in the first step and maybe even in the following second step. The steps need to be forward, they don't have to be big leaps, just in the right direction. The first step could easily start in your mind and the decision to move forward.

Wishing you a bright and warm future ahead,
AQ

 

[ddream]

Hi,

Actually this reading is saying 'move on' pretty clearly. Yi isn't telling you why he was put on your road but it is telling you to keep walking. 25 is about becoming untangled and univolved. It's advice is to not get caught up. I know this is not easy, but it is sound advice. Free yourself from all negative things that he has placed on the road that are causing you to stop. Don't even get a street sweeper or a bulldozer to clear out the road, just keep on trucking. 25's advice is to act now, with a forward motion, small step by small step, towards purity of the whole thing or you will get stuck in the perpetual motion of it all. Lines 1's advice is to simply 'go'. You are able to move on. Line 2's advice is to not 'work'' on this road. Don't stop and pick up broken peices and question them. 6 is where you are coming from- the feeling of being on a road that you don't know where you are going. You are looking back and looking forward and you feel trapped at what to pay attention to and where to start your footing.

Yi is saying something other than my advice to learn from the situation. Yi is saying just move on. (Does Yi know how hard it is, yes. It will take time though and yi knows that too. I think the advice is in the first step and maybe even in the following second step. The steps need to be forward, they don't have to be big leaps, just in the right direction. The first step could easily start in your mind and the decision to move forward.

Wishing you a bright and warm future ahead,
AQ

Yes. I guess there is no point wanting to know more about the situation. It's over, it's over. Sometimes, I'm okay. Other times, thoughts resurface in my mind. I'm doing better than this morning at least. Well, I want to thanks to everyone again for the help you provided me with. It was much appreciated. :bows:

 

[anon]

Sending you lots of light and love ddream. Don't worry when you least expect it your prince will come! And it will be perfect! Just the way you want it!

BIG VIRTUAL HUG!!!! And thank you for the updates. It really helps with the reading.

 

[ddream]

Thanks to you as well, anon, for the hug. I'll try not to worry. I'm slowly doing better, I still have dark moments. A few more days or weeks and I should be back on track.

 

[ddream]

Guys... Sorry to bother you again, but I have another question. Someone wants to meet me next weekend (not the one that's coming, but the one after). Now, I'm not really in the mood to meet anyone else right now, obviously, but I just figure I have nothing to lose. So, I accepted the invitation. Physically, he is my type, but I don't know him at all. So, I asked the IChing how our meeting would go and I got 51 unchanging. Ok, I'll probably be surprised... but in a good way or a bad way? Perhaps it's not a good idea that I mean someone else this soon? Well... I'll still have another week to feel better about things though...

 

[arabella]

Guys... Sorry to bother you again, but I have another question. Someone wants to meet me next weekend (not the one that's coming, but the one after). Now, I'm not really in the mood to meet anyone else right now, obviously, but I just figure I have nothing to lose. So, I accepted the invitation. Physically, he is my type, but I don't know him at all. So, I asked the IChing how our meeting would go and I got 51 unchanging. Ok, I'll probably be surprised... but in a good way or a bad way? Perhaps it's not a good idea that I mean someone else this soon? Well... I'll still have another week to feel better about things though...

Suggest you would make this a new post maybe? A fresh start?

 

[ddream]

You're right. I thought about it as well. I will post it in a new thread.