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"what is my role in X his life?"Yi answer: 11 > 19.
P.S. if you need to cry, cry but I see no evil death...
Best wishes on your journey,
Blue_Angel
11.3>19
Hi Pisces, sorry, I'm a little less optimistic about the relationship. Imo, 11.3 indicates your peace will be found in accepting that his inconsistency will be the only constant and 19 means your influence will be more like a guiding light for him.
From what you've described, you might consider that your needs and his may be better served if you remain in the role of friend and/or role model rather than mate. Someone with a pattern of choosing to act out inappropriately rather than improving himself to meet you at your level may be the unfortunate path of someone with unresolved issues and low self-esteem. Understandably, it may be a difficult to come to terms with because the inconsistency may also include wonderful highs in the relationship as well as the lows. But, as they say, all that glitters is not gold...
P.S. If you search through Hilary's blogs, she has a one on 19 which I really liked which might give you a better feel for that hexagram.
For example, my own experience with 11.3>19 was a period of emotional ups and downs, in the end it was all blessings and good fortune. I just needed to see in every situation in life there will be ups and downs. But we must be able to hold our light inside and balance regardless of the change in weather. I needed to find my own balance.
Sometimes we tip too far to the right, sometimes to far to the left. But we should be able to come back to our center and regain our balance. Regardless of the change in his mood or in the weather or any other change that is outside of herself. The blessings and good fortune she will benefit from, may be that she's better able to work through this relationship with him. Or it may be that she becomes so well balanced that she chooses not to go on in this relationship. Then begins attracting blessings to herself in other areas of her life or with another relationship. The blessings could be she found her balance and was able to grow. Its within herself to bring about the change she wishes to see. "Be the change that you wish to see" __ Gandhi
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).