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deekristen

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ok i feel horrible, i keep saying i wont think about him and wont ask anything but at a moment of losing my mind i started yelling what do you want from me??? and at that moment i realized why dont i ask this question to i ching? Hmmm and i did, cuz appearantly i have no self control... and the answer was 45.1.4.5 goint to 24

It is all good up until this point but i havent been talking to the guy for a month and there is just nothing, absolute nothing between us right now and the answers that i ching giving me are confusing me so much, if it said something like 41 ( i always thought 41 is the most dreadful hexagram by the way) maybe i could let go...
Any guesses? what does he want from me?... cuz at this point i just cant think...
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Hi DK
ok i feel horrible, i keep saying i wont think about him and wont ask anything but at a moment of losing my mind i started yelling what do you want from me??? and at that moment i realized why dont i ask this question to i ching? Hmmm and i did, cuz appearantly i have no self control... and the answer was 45.1.4.5 goint to 24

This sounds like a really difficult situation for you in all sorts of ways and on all sorts of levels. It was a good thing that you did, to choose to ask IC for some advice. What do you want from me? The IC responded......

45 - Keep yourself in check. Seek out the calmness, not the frustrations.
45.1 - Although it's tough....What you are feeling is just part of the process you are going through. Try not to beat yourself up about it.
45.4 - You were on the right path. You can choose to just step back on it and all will be well.
45.5 - Focus your attentions and thoughts on what you truly need. It's hard, I know, but you can do it. Cut up the circles that are spinning in your head.
24 - This will help you to turn the corner and you will start to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Be Well
Mike
 
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deekristen

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Thank you very much Mike,
The thing is that actually i know thats what i should be doing cut up the circles and step back etc. but what you should do and what you can do sometimes just dont match. What i am thinking is i think i am obsessed with the situation or the guy (i dont think the guy himself is an issue here, i think it is the situation diriving me crazy).
Thank you very much, i think i can have a couple of sane days again after this reading.. Thank you again.
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what do you want from me? 45.1.4.5 to 24

A reconciliation.
 
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diamanda

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Sorry to say i'll have to disagree on reconciliation.

There's far too many people in his life at the moment, a lot of confusion,
lots of busy and confusing social life, so i really don't think he's actively
or seriously thinking of getting back together. I have yet to see 24 meaning
that a lover returns... beautiful and optimistic though it sounds, i've always
found it to rather be an urge for the querier to find a way to return back to
their own 'light', an easy-going way of life. If it does turn out for you that
he returns to you, please do come back and tell us, as i would really love
to see for once 24 meaning 'return of a person'.
 
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deekristen

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with me or with him?

Hey willowfox,
Can you tell me what you really mean with reconciliation... As i know it means something like peace, how does it fit in this situation? Does he want a reconcilation or should i do it with myself? And yes english is not my first language :)
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deekristen

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Hello diamanda,
Yeah sure, if he returns i will really post it all over the world, dont worry :) Because i just cant see how that will happen... I was just wondering what does he want from me...
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I often see 45 as a hexagram that tells us to pull ourselves together. Whatever the situation with the man - and I have seen 24 signal the return of a lover, btw - you will be happier and more fulfilled either with or without him if you are "together" as a person and guard against letting yourself go.

45.1 - pulling yourself together is tough and happens in stages, some days you do well, others less so. The IC is telling you that process is normal, don't worry about it.

45.4 - a marked progress

45. 5 - keep persevering and leave your confusion behind.

This will lead to a turning point in you, a return to your centre.

It could also mean a reconciliation - because I believe the IC works on several levels - but first, it is the internal level that has to be attended to.

You're doing well!
 
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deekristen

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Thank you Sophie,
At this point i really dont care if i am happy with him or without him, i just dont wanna feel or go insane. And IC has given me a great answer to pull myself together again, it helps a lot actually.
Thank you all...
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