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Basically he is making you unhappy. You need to know if he is with you or he isn't. It's not complicated. If he wants to be with you he needs to be with you otherwise he's messing with your head.(myself and my boyfriend are in the process of separation/reconciliation. It’s uncertain. All my separation/abandonment/grief issues are being brought up.
Well they could be right but you can't put any faith in them otherwise you are trying to have a relationship with him via a commercial relationship with these so called 'readers'. What is it you are meant to be being patient about ? What's the delay? Can't he make his mind up? When people make out it's complicated there's generally some bullshit going on somewhere so don't hang on for him just through some phone psychics who know nothing about anything.If it wasn’t for that, and the generally wise advice/counselling of the readers on the particular line I use, saying there’s hope of reconciliation if I’m patient, I think I would have plunged in wildly & chaotically and alienated myself and my boyfriend forever.
Yes-hearing you.Try praying also it's free and you can do it anywhere. Also praying is quite a 45ish thing to do, gather yourself together with God or if you don't believe in God whatever you do believe in that is your true core value.
One thing not to believe in is people making profits from capitalising on other's fears and uncertainties. These people have no idea if you and your boyfriend will reunite, they are charlatans.
I think things like psychic lines and Tarot cards are probably pretty bad for you right now.
But apart from that, something I see a lot of here is women seemingly put 'on hold' by their alleged boyfriend whilst he puts them through some kind of test of not being with them whilst not ending the relationship either.
If he can't be with you now then why should you hang around for him.
45 really does mean hold yourself together, gather yourself, focus. That's not distracting yourself or dispersing your fears with cards or phone readers it's more like you getting down to basics about what your needs are because this might be a bit of a crisis/emergency. You're in emotional danger as in this is really affecting you and you have to take care of yourself as you would someone else. I don't like the sound of it. You have to keep yourself whole here.
Basically he is making you unhappy. You need to know if he is with you or he isn't. It's not complicated. If he wants to be with you he needs to be with you otherwise he's messing with your head.
Well they could be right but you can't put any faith in them otherwise you are trying to have a relationship with him via a commercial relationship with these so called 'readers'. What is it you are meant to be being patient about ? What's the delay? Can't he make his mind up? When people make out it's complicated there's generally some bullshit going on somewhere so don't hang on for him just through some phone psychics who know nothing about anything.
What should I do about my reliance on psychic phone lines?” & got 45 unchanging.
Lovely-yes, this makes sense.The words of Hex. 45 are positive. I think this is saying that generally, these calls with these other people (a sort of 'gathering' in one respect) can be positive for you. But you asked specifically about your 'reliance' on these phone lines (calls). So ...
With 45, the lower trigram (3-line figure) is Earth: I think this represents you being accepting and caring; the upper trigram is Lake; I see this as these other people making you feel content, joyful, or okay about your situation - they are helping to relieve your suffering.
However, the text of 45 also depicts someone - in this case a king - doing and taking action: going to the ancestral temple, sacrificing an ox. going on a journey (based on trans. by Field). To me this shows what might be the limits of these 'psychic phone lines' - that at some point you need to take action, become more self-reliant, deal with this situation as if your going on your own "journey".
Bradford Hatcher describes the 'Janus' nature of many hexagrams, Janus being the Roman god with two faces. In this case I see both the positive side of 45, where you are open to the positive things these psychics are telling you; but on the other hand (the other face), you need to be careful you don't become too passive - too open, too willing to go along with what others say, so what they are saying / doing becomes like an addiction for you.
Imagine this as if you are seeking medicine to deal with a dis-'ease' you have: this is fine, but remember, we usually take medicine and get treatment so we get well - and then no longer have to take medicine or seek treatment. Similarly, I think the whole goal of getting advice from psychic phone calls is so you eventually don't need to get advice from psychic phone calls. The goal - hopefully - is you/we don't get addicted to them instead.
Best, D
I should say the addiction is occurring during the time I’m in limbo in my relationship & I would see it as temporary.
I’ve had two very sympathetic, gathering-type conversations with employees from the phone company (who both suggested I go to a spiritualist church instead.
Your interpretation was certainly useful for me-thank you..
First, just my own opinion here, (and ignore it if you need to) but I don't think that phone company employees recommending a church for you is appropriate. And you discussing your issues with them? That feels more like a symptom of how much you are hurting - and may have already gone over to the 'other side' (the other face) of Hex. 45, as I discussed above.
Second, if any psychic phone people were calling me uninvited or I felt they were harassing me - and not just 'offering help' - I would no longer have anything - nothing, nada - to do with them.
D
Maybe the hotline is part of your integration?collecting yourself and integrating your many roles and strengths, getting yourself together. Many people, roles, energies and issues are concentrated in this single focal point.
That’s interesting Liselle, thank you.45 for this does seem kind of puzzling...
There's it's Image, maybe:
'Lake higher than the earth: Gathering.
A noble one sets aside weapons and tools,
And warns against the unexpected.'
You said you've been able to afford it so far - maybe Yi figures you'll stop before your financial dam breaks? Mingling Yi's metaphors, you can't keep sacrificing your cattle indefinitely. Such an intense gathering isn't meant to go on very long, it can't.
45's complement/opposite is 26 -
45...........26
26 is about an ongoing great enterprise, like a big, established company. So 45 and 26 have "great enterprise" in common, but maybe they differ in longevity. In a company it might be like pulling people away from their normal jobs to work on a special project. You can only do that for a while.
Hilary in her book commentary partly talks about 45's purpose as an act of integration:
Maybe the hotline is part of your integration?
Read through all of this and found it quite a lovely thread.I do process emotions by talking them through-& it’s hard to get people in the “real world” who would happily skip across the different types of discourse this takes (from spiritual to mundane to psychological to basic emotional maintenance etc)
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).