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Why did Tom come into my life? What lesson is there to learn that could possibly make all this worthwhile?
And I received 47.1 > 58
Right you are! These are just the words I needed to hear! Thank you so much. :Big Grin:I second Diamanda's statement that not all people and all bad things that happen to us are dripping with meaning and learning. As for learning, that is what a survivor does in hindsight. You've indicated an obsession with 'Tom'. A self destructive obsession at that, that leads you into the no win situation. (the valley of gloom)....You have healed after chemo. You are 'good to go' as it were, a clean well that needs to find the right person to share and cooperate with. (it's not these 'boys' look for someone mature.)
The third SIX, divided, shows its subject straitened before a (frowning) rock. He lays hold of thorns. He enters his palace, and does not see his wife. There will be evil.
If I understand it correctly, he wants a guy, not a woman!Maybe if you took on more female companionship, perhaps a cleaning lady, you could avoid the evil by entering your palace and seeing your "wife".
If I understand it correctly, he wants a guy, not a woman!
He's had a problem with someone because of that persons' sex,
Are you serious? You are considering women as prostitutes.
It is not a bad thing to be a prostitute as long as a woman chose this profession freely.
How many prostitutes have you personally known? I have known several and I have never met one that wasn't abused/damaged or addicted to hard drugs. My female cousin was all three things before her death four years ago at age 32. The idea of a dignified prostitute is a myth.
I'm really with you on this, not to insult or degrade them.Especially I am against using the word 'whore' or 'prostitute' as an insult for a woman.
This is insulting to me and to all women but I am not going to discuss why as I don t want to fall into politics nor fight.It is not a bad thing to be a prostitute as long as a woman chose this profession freely.
Exactly... but still I think I get what you mean, olga. I guess you complain about the idea, that a cleaning person is regarded as responsible for giving 'female care' to a guy, which is indeed a sexist idea. And especially absurd in this case, since he never asked for female care.
A cleaning person is paid for cleaning, period.
so let s point out the followings:
A person never chooses to sell themselves. Ever. That s a nice tale men tell themselves because it s bad to tell themselves that they re buying people and their desperation.
The real choice is to be free to go with whoever you want. for free. When money is involved, the word freedom doesn t apply.
Ever seen the wife of the president of the United States selling herself to whoever demands her in the streets or in one of those disgusting legal prostitution hotels you have in some places?
Selling or renting parts of our body has always been a taboo and can t be normalized in any society (governments have, but governments are made of men who are the clients of such business)
It s like saying that black people enjoyed slavery. Some of them certainly did as they were happy with their condition, but that was only due to the fact that they knew no other way of living.
He's had a problem with someone because of that persons' sex, and I'm simply suggesting a sense of balance, based on the reading he got from the I-Ching which confirms the one sided nature of his problem.
The OP has obviously been in a relationship in which he has had to find out the hard way that paying for love is not love itself. And I did not mean to suggest that he hire a prostitute, that all cleaning ladies are prostitutes, or that the cleaning profession is demeaning. I meant that he clean the house, that he stop the draining of the lake of 47, and have smooth transition into the joyful satisfaction of 58.
Since the querent never asked about prostitution though,
ernobe
The OP has obviously been in a relationship in which he has had to find out the hard way that paying for love is not love itself.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).