5.5.6 to 26 and 40.4 to 7

[Madmaxmel]

Hi all!
At first I want to say that I have used this page from time to time, and found the answers to be amazingly accurate. Sorry about the poor writing skills, I am from Finland.

I am a man, 37 years, and the last 2 years have been a tough time. I'm hoping for improvements in my life as my place of work. I am also single and hope to meet the right woman. I understand that the good things in life are flowing, when I look calmly, and without the sadness of everyday life, moment by moment.
At times, I am very frustrated, and that's why I wrote this, a little general statement:

When I did not know how to be calm and happy, blamed myself for it.

The answer was 5.5.6 to 26

So, I need to be patient, to seek the good things.
And line 6? I guess I'm "in a cave" now, and that's why sometimes frustrated.

Because of my work ends after six months, I asked this:
I do not have any idea what I study or do I seek a job?

The answer was 40.4 to 7

Listen to your intuition / follow the path that appears when you release yourself from expectations?

If you have any additions, I am grateful.

 

[Trojina]

Both answers suggest to me that you need to be more open to opportunities/invitations/ideas that normally you would dismiss as maybe 'not my thing'.

5.5.6>26 nothing is really wrong here, in answer to your question, other than you may have narrowed down your options perhaps in order to focus (hex 26) and now you need to relax a little (5.5) but also be open to unexpected visitors in 5.6.

I think Hilary wrote a blog post on 5.6 will link to it if I find it, but these 'visitors' can be anything from books that come your way, invitations, suggestions, unexpected opportunities...these are visitors that can help you. The thing is you may think they are not worth bothering with or something like that. 5.6 says welcome these visitors and it is fortunate. I wonder if you be more open to things that come your way you may find the way to be calm and happy again.

40.4>7 again suggests that in letting go of preconceived ideas about the kind of things you can do you make progress more easily.

These answers seem linked. They both say, in a sense, to step slightly out of your usual way of deciding what it for you and what is not. Both encourage open curiosity IMO


Ah here is the link to the blog post about 5.6 http://onlineclarity.co.uk/answers/2009/02/15/honouring-guests/

 

[Madmaxmel]

Thank you so much!
I've had a few times hex5 line 6 a reply within a year, I think this is an important reading in my own case. You're right, I should learn to be more open and confident for the future. Patience has never been my strength, and it often leads to negative thinking, when I expect a lot of myself also.
I am now even more convinced of that, "I have to count my blessings," and be more relaxed.
I promise to give an update on this thread, especially that hex5 line 6 is very interesting and it will be interesting to see what it will mean.
Thank you again!

 

[Madmaxmel]

I asked again for more info:
5 Hex line 6, can you tell us more?

The answer was to 37.1.3.5 23

This can mean a partnership, but maybe some inner peace.
Perhaps, when you think about its context, it could mean the partnership.

 

[Tim K]

I think it says:
Don't be too hard on yourself, relax the regime.

Wilhelm:
1. Steady seclusion within the family. Remorse dwindles.
In my opinion 'family' means you, your house, your mind. This line is a warning, Not to seclude yourself.

Daniels:
3. Discipline is important, but should not be severe.
5. Good authority is based on love and kindness.

Be more open and accept everything that comes your way (3 guests as previously mentioned).
h40 also advices 'to not dine at home' - explore the outside area, come out of your cave
40.4, Daniels: Remove bad influences and you will gain allies.

Go out more, you can meet people in unexpected places, like while Skiing (In Finland i think this is a big thing), snowboarding, .. bars, cafes. Think more positive, and sad thoughts will automatically go away.

 

[Madmaxmel]

I think it says:
Don't be too hard on yourself, relax the regime.

Wilhelm:
1. Steady seclusion within the family. Remorse dwindles.
In my opinion 'family' means you, your house, your mind. This line is a warning, Not to seclude yourself.

Daniels:
3. Discipline is important, but should not be severe.
5. Good authority is based on love and kindness.

Be more open and accept everything that comes your way (3 guests as previously mentioned).
h40 also advices 'to not dine at home' - explore the outside area, come out of your cave
40.4, Daniels: Remove bad influences and you will gain allies.

Go out more, you can meet people in unexpected places, like while Skiing (In Finland i think this is a big thing), snowboarding, .. bars, cafes. Think more positive, and sad thoughts will automatically go away.

What you say has a lot of good things, my social life is too quiet, I
thought about this recently. It really is up to me, how can I get more positive thoughts and connections. I add smiles and activity in my life. Thank you for your interpretation. =)