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54.2.3.4 to 36 please help me understand.

nettyc1

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why are their egos getting in the way if they seek independent & women who are assertive?
response: 54.2.3.4 to 36

Story: Invited two separate men to see a show and both cancel after saying yes they would go. Both relationships are open with no commitment. both say they seek a secure individual that cares for her self and certain of what she wants and both cringe when they get what they ask for... How long does one have to wait before a man truly is aware of what he wants from a women? Why do they say they want nontraditional then want traditional? They want to romp around but then your not good enough for a relationship with them? Im so confused!::confused:

54.2.3.4 to 36-Is it saying they are hiding their light because they has no clue how to rise to the occasion....& give me what i want..which is a solid relationship with no yo-oing back and forth.
Or should I just stay in hiding because they don't know what they want from me.
 
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54.2.3.4 > 36

54.2 - a lonely person
54.3 - accepts the position of a concubine/secondary wife
54.4 - and waits for a proper relationship for a long time
36 - and gets hurt

Men usually know very well what they want from a particular woman, but they can invent all sorts of excuses if what they want is not a relationship. Simple white lies. The issue of this story seems to be that you have already accepted an inferior position (54.3) and then you expect it to turn into a 'marriage', which is unlikely (36). Don't pay attention to what they say, just observe their actions towards you - their actions will show you clearly what it is that they want.
 

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Thank you very much, I did see it and wasn't expecting anything, Then the verbal manipulation and confusing signals as I pulled away is what made me ask & no response was given. Thanks again, yes they are both wasting my time. Greatly appreciate your time.
 

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