54.3.5 What does my inner truth know about This situation

[Surfergirl]

Is this telling me that I know deep in my heart that now is not the right time, but that when the timing is right “union” will occur?

This is about relationship. It’s the 43 that throws me. Because I typically see it as a state of indecision.

This reading is about the relationship all my other readings are about. basically he is not ready for the level of commitment I am. We both really like eachother but that is our reality. Because it is in conflict with my self boundaries I cut things off. That is not without great personal struggle and heartbreak to myself. I just cannot accept an almost relationship or one where as the hex 54 state I come second. Thank you!

 

[Surfergirl]

Is this telling me that I know deep in my heart that now is not the right time, but that when the timing is right “union” will occur?

This is about relationship. It’s the 43 that throws me. Because I typically see it as a state of indecision.

This reading is about the relationship all my other readings are about. basically he is not ready for the level of commitment I am. We both really like eachother but that is our reality. Because it is in conflict with my self boundaries I cut things off. That is not without great personal struggle and heartbreak to myself. I just cannot accept an almost relationship or one where as the hex 54 state I come second. Thank you!

Full is 54.3.5 > 43

 

[moss elk]

He is not willing to commit to you.
(but willing to have sex with you)
Did I get that right?
Forget about the word 'ready' and focus on 'willing', his will is the heart of the matter,
readiness is an after-effect of his will, and secondary.

The reading may indicate he has other girlfriends. Maybe you are aware?
He's the pro athlete? Maybe he has a bunch?

I think the reading doesn't seem auspicious for a commited relationship with him.
Nor do his actions.

 

[Surfergirl]

He is not willing to commit to you.
(but willing to have sex with you)
Did I get that right?
Forget about the word 'ready' and focus on 'willing', his will is the heart of the matter,
readiness is an after-effect of his will, and secondary.

The reading may indicate he has other girlfriends. Maybe you are aware?
He's the pro athlete? Maybe he has a bunch?

I think the reading doesn't seem auspicious for a commited relationship with him.
Nor do his actions.

Hi thank you for your help Elk Moss ❤ not quite. He has committed to an exclusive relationship with me, he just freaked out when things became more serious and began taking a ton of space. He is a pro athlete. I don’t believe there are other girls. Hmmmm but we’ve definitely had a ton of distance but I’m 99% sure— all seasons have been suspended for covid so it’s doubtful.
When I asked the question I felt like I was tired of waiting and allowing for space, that the space wasn’t helping. And basically I told him I was through with the current form of our relationship. That if he really wanted and valued our partnership, he would take actions to have it. sooo thinking about it, this reading probably meant i was tired of being second to something and willing to release my position to have something better. I didn’t know how things would conclude at the time I asked. I did not do it as a game, or to manipulate his actions, or as an ultimatum.I did it because something energetically shifted in me. I am through with our partnership but it is not over. He still reaches out daily and I’m kind back, but feel very clear and good about my boundaries. I don’t know that we won’t be together but I do know that I will not continue if we are not building something healthy and fulfilling to us both.

so 54.3 — being ok with his text messages (subservient to what I really want)
54.5 — maybe his loss of status? Potentially mine.
43– he is currently in a state of decision . I feel as though mine has been made.

 

[Lavalamp]

What does my inner truth know about This situation? 54.3.5>46

46 - with less than 4 lines I just read the line/lines, and the relating hex as context rather than outcome.
It just means this is about you deciding. That's pretty much what you are doing.

54.3 When I saw this line before reading your later explanation, my first thought was you don't like being second to your boyfriend's career.

54.5 This line is about accepting a lesser position to be happy. You don't get to be first before his career - or maybe even loved more than he loves surfing. But there is happiness there if you can accept it. Maybe if you can look at it as surfing is who he is, part of his identity and he wouldn't be the person you love without that part of himself.
Certain careers are like that where the job always comes first, musicians, athletes, actors, politicians, captains of industry... First responders, nurses, firemen, cops, military. It's good you are looking at this going in and dealing with it now, rather than later.
And look at all the men that love their woman more than their career - because they hate their jobs.

( As an aside, we used to cut school and go hang at Waimea just to watch the shorebreak... Saw your post I thought I was thinking Dude, that question is so surfer girl. )

- LL